Have you ever had the desire to break off a relationship without explanation? Just don't get in touch and that's it? Has it ever happened that you broke off a relationship, but the other party did not react? What unbearable things did you have to deal with? Or realize that if you don’t take the initiative, then that’s what you need to do? Therapy is precisely the space where you can discover your behavior patterns. Get over the fear, understand how I get out of a relationship where it becomes unbearable? Or understand for yourself: do I want to deal with a person who doesn’t care about me? Or discover that our relationship is built on the fact that the other side is waiting for me to give up? "Technique" from educational methods. The parent becomes silent and ignores the child. The parent has all the resources. Of course, the child will “give up,” if only because he wants to eat and comes to ask for forgiveness. Such manipulative techniques then continue into adulthood. In the role of an aggressor - ignore. (I remember how painful it was when I was the victim), and that’s why I use manipulation. Any relationship ends sooner or later. The end of a relationship occurs either through completion or through breakage. And even if it is a relationship between lovers with strong attachment, one of them leaves the relationship through death. In the same way, the therapeutic relationship must eventually end and this is normal. At the beginning of therapy, the termination procedure is discussed. If therapy is short-term, up to six months, then usually a few meetings are enough to end the relationship. If a person has been in therapy for several years, it may take several months to complete. The idea is this: a year of therapy - a month to complete. Therapy ends when a person realizes and understands enough for himself, at this stage of his life's journey. But transference can happen. In the therapist, the client will see a significant figure for himself and the client will feel, but will hush up in the therapeutic relationship, some huge resentment and intolerance of emotions. And then he can simply choose not to come. This is bad because a person gets stuck in some kind of destructive program, acting in the usual way. And therefore it is very important to track, especially when resistance, anger, indignation and resentment arise, and the desire to remain silent. It is important to come to a meeting, come to the therapist with this and express your desire to stop, sincerely telling the reason. Often, it is at this moment that a lot of new things open up for the client and therapy enters a new stage. Also in life, we could encounter people who abruptly disappeared from your life. Or you yourself leave the relationship. Without explanation. Without picking up the phone, without getting in touch, you simply disappear. I invite you to therapy, a safe space where you can sit with this and analyze what is so intolerable about what broke the relationship and how does it affect life? Sign up for a consultation: https://www.b17.ru/za291182/# consultation