I found a phrase on the Internet that inspired me to write this article: “Spring! I really want to fall in love, but my husband will be against it!” Clients come to me with the problem of attraction to another man while they are married. Despite the piquancy of the situation, this is a fairly common topic, when fantasies and dreams about something else fill the thoughts of married ladies. I see such topics on the forum, apparently the spring endorphins have gone..." I'm married, I'm crazy about my child's tutor. He is so attentive and hot!” “Married, I want a boss! He doesn’t take his eyes off me, he’s such a man, he smells like a man. And my husband is so boring, he’ll bury his head in his phone, turn on his side and snore! What’s the romance here!?” I’m drawn to him, I think about him always and everywhere, but I’m married. How can I stop this?” I’m always for saving the marriage, if there really is something to save! And against cheating, but “for” a variety of relationships with my husband. Therefore, , dear women, if you are married and you are magnetically drawn to another man, it is important not to make a mistake! You need to pay attention to your relationship with your spouse, namely: 1. Do you get enough attention from your spouse - does your husband give you compliments? Is there tactile contact, does your husband show signs of attention, is there a dialogue between you. If this is not enough for you or not, then read my publications What words should a man say 3 steps to a man’s heart Lack of attention from a spouse, the desire to feel desired can lead to thoughts, fantasies, communication, flirting, cheating with another man. Here you need to determine what emotional desires you and your husband have. 2. Are you satisfied with the intimate sphere, do you get satisfaction - if not, then it is important to think about how to diversify the intimate sphere for both of you. Determine what Both of you have sexual desires. Learn to voice your desires with your mouth, play with your partner, experiment, show and let your partner take the initiative, move away from the maternal position towards the man, include the girl. Dissatisfaction and lack of release in the sexual sphere can be a provocateur for your desires for another, inaccessible object. 3. Do you have a sufficiently emotional life - in particular, do you and your spouse have interesting leisure time together and separately from each other? Perhaps you and your spouse have long since experienced “everyday life”, you have stopped going to dates and live like neighbors How to diversify joint leisure time as a couple Then, behind the attraction to another man, there may be a banal lack of joint recreation, exciting events, resource affairs in relation to each other and, most importantly, to oneself How to be in a resourceful state Analyze in which places, with whom In what situations do thoughts about another man appear? How busy is your day? Often a woman is attracted to another man when she sits at home and does not work, or is on maternity leave, or at a monotonous job, when there is a lot of free time, or when her husband is away on a business trip/on shift. I had a positive an experience where my client and I quickly, in 4 sessions, removed obsessive thoughts towards another man and saved the marriage! At the end of the article, I would like to wish you all: May you be warmed not only by the sun, but by the hands and lips of your loved one this spring!