Earn the patient's trust The psychophysiological processes that ensure recovery during psychotherapy are well known to professionals, but unknown to patients. And, frankly, they cause misunderstanding and frighten an unenlightened person, because problems with the head are terrible for the average person! A professional’s clients are people who came by word of mouth or who have read quite a lot about psychology. Even sincerely wanting to help a person, first you must go through “the path of a pop star” will appeal to viewers who are not always loyal. As Leonid Bronevoy said in one of his last interviews: “I hate my profession because I have to please the viewer. “Being liked” is more natural for women.” Most often, professionals forget about this necessary professional intermediate moment of rapprochement between doctor and patient. And the axiom of military sappers comes into play: “experienced sappers die more often than beginners...”. You are losing a client. Your previous merits and recognitions do not play any role when there is a stranger in front of you. What if these are parents with a child?! They are a priori hyper-wary of your personality and professionalism. Your advertising will not affect the level of trust. Beware of vagueness: trust arises as a result of “joining” the client. Attention: psychotechniques of “joining” have a negative impact on gaining an atmosphere of trust. Only the manifestation of professional care helps to create the necessary level of interaction. To be constantly in demand, never think of yourself as a master - there are no masters who could live their lives for others or walk their path for them - consider yourself just another participant in the Mysterious Plan, striving to help others acquire the knowledge that you managed to obtain yourself . The role of the professional is to coordinate - based on existing experience - the internal work of each member of the client’s family system, including his own. This state can become a professional habit when a state of “inner freedom” is achieved. It cannot come from the outside, since in real life responsibility for it is up to each individual to achieve freedom. I am talking about freedom as we intuitively grasp it—without necessarily understanding what it is—in the context of our own lives. The hyperliberal, or ideal, idea of ​​freedom has one flaw - it is so perfect and far from reality. what becomes unattainable; Thus, we remain inactive in the face of the limitations of our daily existence. Approaching freedom and knowledge is more practical than conceptual. Human knowledge finds expression in a way of life, and not in words, to avoid retelling working material that does not contain anything new. I offer exercises, the main goal of which is to gain the ability to move your rational-professional “I” to the area of ​​your subconscious, where all the uncritical experience you have ever noticed is stored. This always results in “clarification of current worldview and professionalism.” You become a little different after meeting your sacred "I" - subconscious. Integrating awareness of the other self with everyday awareness leads to the acquisition of "inner freedom and wholeness of self." Some exercises: As an expression of subconscious experience, awareness of your potential abilities is incomprehensible, when In this case, its possibilities are practically unlimited., stored in the memory of the right hemisphere of the brain (the other self), which differ markedly from the memories stored in ordinary conscious memory, mainly localized in the left hemisphere of the brain. This refers to memories that are not consistent with the everyday description of the world and therefore are not registered by ordinary memory, remaining hidden in the awareness of the “other self.” Therefore, the daily exercise will look like this: 1. Immerse yourself in a state of light trance.2. Get started