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If you crave attention, approval, praise, then you are a neurotic person. Such a person really needs approval of his actions from other people. This state of a person is polar, that is, a person, that is, a person is either in a state of joy and euphoria from the attention received, or he becomes anxious and sad. It will help such a person with neurosis if a person who does not suffer from such neurosis stays nearby, if such a person can stay with a neurotic person without being affected by his neurosis himself. A person who suffers from neurosis, to those people who were in a relationship with him, Will definitely issue an invoice at some point. Because all this time, while in a relationship, the neurotic was very polite, pleasant with you, supported your importance, paid compliments, was courteous. And, if suddenly at some point you deprive the person of something very important for him (approval , love, acceptance or something else), then he will give you a very large bill. As soon as a neurotic encounters some kind of criticism of his opinion, he ceases to feel his need or importance in something, he immediately feels useless, angry, lost, alienated. The neurotic in this case can aggressively fight for attention and recognition, prove that he is right , manipulate. Such a person often lives in stress and tension, although sometimes he feels life more pleasant and comfortable. A neurotic person wants vivid experiences. He is not interested in simple experiences, in the area of ​​average emotions. He wants a drama in which he will be both an actor, a director, and a spectator. But the fact is that the nature of vivid emotions is such that after great pleasure comes great suffering. A neurotic person cannot imagine an ordinary life for himself. And without deep, true humility with one’s normality, a harmonious and happy life is not possible. A psychologist can help such a person. First of all, it is important to create an image in which the client can see himself as simple and ordinary. It is important for him to love his normality and ordinariness..