Man and Woman, two separate worlds that become one only at the moment of intimacy. It is at this moment that they unite for pleasure and love. Some will call it divine union, some will call it good sex, some will just call it “fucking.” And sometimes, knowing so much about the “technical part of sex,” we miss the psychological side, and it is this that is the main one in a woman’s achievement of pleasure in sexual relationships. Is this really so, or has modern emancipation and the development of society led to that a woman can easily not only manage the financial affairs of a huge company, but has also adopted the male strategy of behavior in sexual life? A survey conducted by the Kinsey Institute of almost a thousand American women from 20 to 65 years old led to the conclusion that female sexuality is qualitatively different from male. And this difference lies precisely in the psychological component of sexual relations. Women's sexual satisfaction directly depends not only on bodily factors, such as arousal and orgasm, but also on psychological ones - emotional intimacy, mutual understanding and love. It is not for nothing that the company, the creator of Viagra, refused to further develop the so-called "female Viagra", due to the strong the dependence of female sexuality on psychosocial factors. And at the same time, the desire of women is greatly influenced by the menstrual cycle and hormones. Women's sexual activity varies at different stages of the cycle. You, dear women yourself, have more than once noticed changes in your desires during this mysterious “lunar cycle”, which lasts approximately 28 days. In the first week, the level of progesterone and estrogen in women is extremely low and at this moment sexual desire is also does not “gush”. Starting from the second week, estrogen levels increase and reach their maximum levels. It is during this period that a woman becomes especially sensual and greedy for pleasure. And thanks to estrogen, female attractiveness and desirability for men increases. This is all, again, nature, my dears, it is this period that is most favorable for a woman to conceive. In addition, at this time, women’s brain activity is more productive, their sense of smell and vision are enhanced. And all for what? That's right, to better see his beloved, his hero, and think more actively about how to get his priceless genetic material, and eliminate all contenders for his treasure! It is at this moment that a woman becomes a hunter, both in bed and in life. The third week is the most controversial and sometimes difficult for a woman, at this moment hormones make us either lazy and apathetic fur seals, or wild, tireless sexual tigresses. During this period, you can be unpredictable, and my advice to you is to use this to add variety to your sex life. In addition, during this period the sensitivity of a woman’s nerve endings decreases somewhat, so advice to men, more foreplay and tenderness for their beloved, will be beneficial! But what about the concepts of love and sex for women? Men often say “sex is not a reason for dating,” and women often say “sex is not a reason for marriage.” If we analyze a number of social studies concerning the first sexual experience for girls and boys, we can see an interesting pattern. 80% of girls entered into sexual relations out of love, and the same 80% of boys only to satisfy curiosity and excitement. There is one very interesting study by modern sexologists, in which women feel more relaxed and free sexually, namely “ going to great lengths,” and not within the framework of their marriage. In family relationships, women care more about their partner, his feelings and desires, and in adventures, they think more about themselves and their pleasure. However, if there is a “spark” in the relationship, and they are saturated with emotional intimacy, then fuller disclosure is likely female sexuality. Another important difference between women and mensexuality – body and erogenous zones. Have you paid attention to drawings of unambiguous content on the walls of public places, fences, elevators, in a word, in places where folk art flourishes, so to speak, without censorship? So, if a man is depicted, then this is one of his penis, but if a woman is depicted, then in full, the whole body is drawn. The same with erogenous zones, male ones are most often localized in the genital area, female ones throughout the body, and sometimes in such bizarre places that women themselves sometimes have no idea about their existence. Until a handsome prince comes and casts a spell on them with magical kisses under the knee, or rubs his stubble on the inner surface of the forearm. Moreover, female erogenous zones are so numerous and different that they are conventionally divided into several groups. The most interesting in my opinion are the so-called “pseudo-zones”, they are activated only with a certain partner. That is, a certain man may be your own catalyst for any part of your body. And with him, in growing ecstatic pleasure, you will notice that you are excited by his light blow into the hollow above the collarbone. With another partner, this will not work, but a completely different zone may turn on, which is how we are sometimes surprised by our own body and its capabilities. The second group of erogenous zones appears as a woman gets acquainted with her own body, at the moment of the beginning of her sexual life , and is usually limited to the genitals. These zones, with minor differences, are the same for all women. The third group of erogenous zones of a woman usually first drives men crazy, due to their different localization in different women. And then he drives women crazy, because men believe that if one of his partners liked having a tongue stuck in her ear, then the next one should like it too. That is, these zones become especially sensitive as certain sexual preferences develop, as well as the individual characteristics of a woman’s body structure. This also includes the psychological factor of their formation, such as a woman’s beliefs about sex and pleasure, as well as her first sexual experience and erotic fantasies. Speaking of erotic fantasies, do you think they differ between men and women? They are different, even very different. This is also due to differences in male and female sexuality. A man's sexual fantasy is simple and easy to fulfill; it is dominated by sexual libido - the desire for sex. There are no little things, no clearly defined script, and no romance. Women’s, on the other hand, sometimes get stuck on foreplay and don’t get to the most important thing, these are the consequences of the influence of erotic libido. If these are fantasy scenes with rape, then it is imperative that the main villain then falls in love with us. And his violence was accompanied by anguish and an internal struggle between the animal nature and the subtle loving soul. And our shirt is torn in such a way that it favorably emphasizes all the beauty of our body. And in some places it hides shortcomings, this is our fantasy, you can embellish it... In the development of female sexuality, the psychological factor of assessing a man is really very important. This selectivity and assessment of a man’s personal qualities is associated in a woman with the need to choose the best father for her future children. Men, on the contrary, have a need to impregnate as many women as possible. This is how we sometimes live, men with the thought “I’ll try again, again, again...”, and women “maybe the next one will be better..?” And if this becomes the main thing in our lives, then men, due to the variety of impressions, lose the ability to see the uniqueness of a woman and build relationships with her. And women, in an effort to meet the ideal, do not notice the value of those men who meet on their path in life. Therefore, I suggest you today, both men and women, not to look for differences in your sexuality, but to do what will unite you, the intoxicating pleasure of each other. We are so different, but we often have the same pleasure for both of us,)