On the forum in another interesting, but alas, not the most pleasant topic for such people, but nevertheless, it is no less relevant, if on the contrary, even more relevant and quite frequent many people, I had a conversation with its author. And in the process of this conversation, this topic led me to a very interesting option for a possible way out of this Karpman Triangle. In this case, for his victim. If there is an “aggressor” in the family, and his “victim,” unlike the “aggressor,” is already quite aware of this and wants to get out of this victim state. First, I will tell you in more detail about the situation itself, about everything about the order. In the meantime, you can subscribe to my publications, like, and even better, repost this publication. All this, of course, will help all those people who read this and also experience a similar problem, experiencing aggression in the family and are not yet able to find a way out of this. So, the author is a young woman, married, has children, they live as a family with children separately from their parents, but at the same time, her father is directly pestering her, exerting all sorts of pressure, including threats of litigation, in this case through her children, demanding against the will of both her and her husband, in fact, and against the wishes of the children themselves, he demands constant regular visits to them, communication with them, etc. She pesters him with calls and anything else he can get his hands on. In general, from a psychological point of view, her father is a classic aggressor from Karpman’s Treholnik. Of course, among other things, behind all this there is an even richer and more difficult story for the psyche, so that all this lasted for the author for many years, so many people understand quite clearly what consequences all this leads to the psyche, accumulating over many years. And indeed, the author is already both a client of a psychologist and a patient of a psychiatrist, to whom she turned with a depressive disorder acquired in this way, whom she also visited and was treated for. So, in general, the author’s picture is understandable and, alas, logical, in terms of its development, emanating from a similar toxic atmosphere in her parental family. So, the question is - how can such a problem be solved? What could be the way out of it, from the point of view of a psychologist? As I already said, in these relationships with the author of the example under consideration, in her relationship with her father, even now, when she is a fully grown and independent woman, the participants in this well-known pathological triangle are clearly visible. This is the father, the Aggressor. Accordingly, the author is the Victim. Well, somewhere, according to theory, there should be a Persecutor. But in practice this may not yet be clear. This will in no way prevent us from working with such relationships and helping the author find a way out of them. That is, our task is to help the author stop being a victim. We see that this is actively prevented by the Aggressor himself, i.e. the father, with his violent, aggressive actions. Therefore, what could be the author’s way out of this situation? That's right, of course, this could be a complete cessation of communication between the author and her father. Termination of all contacts, all manifestations of relationships, any interactions, etc. that is, everything in general. Then, naturally, the Aggressor will not be able to use his violence against the author and put pressure on him. and suffering for the psyche, leading to depression, anxiety and other consequences that require seeking help from specialists. And the author, naturally, as an adult, independent woman, does just that. I did it a long time ago. Plus, working with a psychologist, as well as a psychiatrist, helped her solve problems with the consequences of such a toxic relationship. But the author’s father still didn’t stop there, he went further. He began to put pressure on the author and her husband to provide access to his grandchildren, that is, their children, so that he could exercise his legal rights, communicate with his grandchildren, which is against actually the grandchildren themselves and their parents. Otherwise, the father threatens to sue and take the children away. That’s why, in fact, I had another: +7 916 61 555 91