A woman stubbornly does not want to understand. Love - how many facets, shades, emotions, experiences, ups and downs there are in this word... A woman cannot live without love, without it she dies... but not in all of them love lives in relationships. Often the relationship between a man and a woman turns into a disease. One of the most dangerous diseases of our time is codependency. The world of progress, movement and chaos has turned values ​​upside down. Now we rush headlong to work in order to be on time, not to miss, to get ahead, otherwise someone will come earlier and that’s it - you are no longer needed, in the hustle and bustle we forget about our spiritual world, about friends, about parents, seeing loved ones in a glimpse... and in the crowd of people running past you feel more and more acutely how lonely you are... Loneliness permeates every cell and instead of touching it and feeling what it is about, we run even faster just so as not to catch the pulsating beating of our heart inside. The fear of loneliness devours and consumes the minds of many women... And then he appears, the long-awaited, beloved and so dear... the man she was waiting for. Having run away from herself for so many years, a woman rushes into the arms of a man, his love. In the hope of salvation, protection and that this is the long-awaited happiness and salvation from loneliness... A woman has waited so long and the rock that she loses all of herself in joy, giving herself over to relationships and new love without a trace, now this, this beautiful thing is added to the working rhythm the feeling is love, all thoughts now are about him, about his beloved, all the conversations about what he said, how he looked, all plans are now connected with him, and what kind of husband he will be, and how he is as a father, and where we will go together rest, and what to cook for him to eat and many other things to become for him... not for her, but for him. And it seems the loneliness has gone and everything is fine...But...But he suddenly has other plans, he is not ready to become anything, neither a husband nor a father, and maybe he was already married and is still married, or maybe he just dreams of another, and now you are just a convenient good option and there may be many more but... This does not stop the woman, she still continues to run, paying attention only to what says about his love for her and ignoring the fact that this is possible just a good meeting, a good romance and nothing more... and you should turn to yourself, listen to your inner woman who knows what to do and how not to lose yourself, but alas... And now love begins to undergo changes, suddenly the world becomes not as beautiful as it seemed to the couple months ago and I want to move forward, but the relationship has frozen and life around has frozen, nothing changes, nothing happens, everything is closed on him - work - home... there are practically no friends left, they suddenly suddenly disappeared somewhere, because she didn’t notice how, having met him, she began to ignore and skip meetings, call friends, and if she came, then all her conversations were only about him... The tension grows, the circle closes, it becomes boring and uninteresting, and life and interest appear only when HE appears... As a rule, a man becomes uninterested in a woman who has completely devoted herself to him, when there is no peace for her, and perhaps he will soon leave this “clinging woman”, or begin to look for some lovely creature on the side... And in the relationship there is a lot of resentment, anger, there is less and less joy, pleasure, a moment of happiness is replaced by weeks of tears and torment... and it seems like we need to break up, and it seems like we need to leave, but the loneliness has not gone away, and there is no one else around and the woman again throws herself into the whirlpool of a blind and sick relationship, because there there is no longer enough love, more and more jealousy, demands, expectations, mutual reproaches... and everything inside closes with pain, because feelings overwhelm a woman’s soul, but she doesn’t dare to say, express, live them, she doesn’t allow it, she forbids... and then there are health problems, and weight increases or the thin blue look turns on few people anymore and sex no longer brings so much joy... but the couple remains together, dividing among themselves who is the victim today and who is the rapist, waiting for who will save their union.... The danger lies in the most sincere and