Man, by and large, is a receiver and generator of electromagnetic radiation of certain vibrations, interacting with the electromagnetic field of other people, the Earth and the entire Universe. Those energy vibrations that we send into the surrounding space, coming into resonance with such the same vibrations of the surrounding world, are amplified many times and return back to us. What matters is the quality of the energies that we set ourselves. If a person generates the energy of anger, the most powerful of all other energies that a person is capable of creating, then it returns to him, reflected from other forms of the surrounding world, amplified an infinite number of times. If a person sends vibrations of kindness and love into the surrounding space, then such the same vibrations, the same energies return to him, amplified many times over. And the more he gives, the more he gets back. Jesus Christ says about this that if you have little, then the last will be taken away, and if you have a lot, then more will be given. The world around us is a mirror for us, which reflects our every thought, every intention, every action, even if we we are not aware of what comes back to us in the form of words, actions of other people and situations. Every situation we find ourselves in is created by us. Everything we hear from people addressed to us, all their actions towards us, are created by us, they are just puppets on the screen of our life movie. If a man next to a woman says that there is no mystery in her, that she is not interesting to him , like a book read, it’s not a matter of a man who voices to a woman her opinion about herself. It is she who thinks about herself that she is not smart enough, beautiful enough, interesting enough, that she has the wrong nose, the wrong legs, the wrong hair, etc. A man, like a mirror, reflects a woman, unconsciously showing her that she does not know herself, does not understand and is not aware. To realize yourself means to understand that such as you are, you should be. Exactly like this, with such arms and legs, with such a nose, in such an apartment, with such things, with or without such education. Everything that has been achieved and not achieved is what you need. That you like to live exactly this way and no other way. Your uniqueness is in your thoughts, in your body shape, in your desires and unwillingnesses. In order to attract from the surrounding space those vibrations that correspond to your life, you need to accept yourself as you really are. Not the one invented in your fantasies, what you would dream of becoming someday, but the one you are real with all, from the point of view of others, “cockroaches”, but your “cockroaches”, which are dear to you and without which you cannot imagine your life life. These “cockroaches” are your individuality, your space in which you are real, true, the way the Universe created you and the Universe will see, notice you and give you everything that it has. Then that real, real man will be nearby who will care about you, and your “cockroaches” will be a mystery that you can solve forever and get pleasure and happiness from it. #newpsychologist Read more than 290 articles on my website: http://noviypsiholog.ru/Online consultation with a psychologist. You can leave a request on my page on b17 or on the website: http://olgalysenkova.ru/