Men and women have different tasks and purposes in nature. And nature, despite the efforts of culture and civilization, continues to create men and women in accordance with these tasks. A woman in a man's world Several generations of women were raised in an atmosphere of “equality” to men. In the Soviet Union, these were the leaders of production. Women working in traditionally male professions were held in high esteem. They ridiculed the bourgeois habits of creating home comfort. Children were separated from their mothers in maternity hospitals in order to drown out the voice of nature. Nowadays, production leaders have smoothly grown into competitive personnel. Women themselves hand over their children to nannies so as not to lose prestigious, well-paid jobs. Many single mothers perform male social roles in the family. Life forces a woman to be strong, skillful, and live according to the laws of the male world. And the woman copes with this successfully. She adjusts to the rhythm of business life, she is more stress-resistant, she manages to do more than any man, she can easily compete with men, but... she ceases to be a woman. A modern woman behaves based on male logic, but you cannot simply brush aside unconscious, natural processes. So our women are languishing in insurmountable contradictions. I want love and affection, warmth and comfort, but when meeting a man, instead of following wise nature and getting all this, a woman begins a competition “who will win.” Approaches relationships from a rational (read: masculine) position. And what happens? At first, when the drive is on, everything goes like clockwork. But when the time comes to build a serious, deep relationship, disappointment awaits. A woman wants security and stability, but what kind of stability is there if a man perceives you as a “game” partner and, to some extent, as a competitor. As they say, it didn’t work out. When I say that good sex begins with the fact that you feed your man dinner, feed him in the full sense of the word: put a plate of delicious-smelling soup in front of him, cut off his bread, give him a spoon, pour him tea, almost all the interlocutors snort and say: “Well, here’s another thing, what about me? I also want...” And here I ask the question: who do you want to be, a woman or a man? A man in a female body or a woman with a male consciousness Men and women in nature have different tasks and purposes. And nature, despite the efforts of culture and civilization, continues to create men and women in accordance with these tasks. Even in infancy, boys and girls develop differently. And this applies not so much to physical development as to mental development. To create harmony at all levels, from the harmony of a couple to universal harmony, it is necessary that a man and a woman complement each other. What is a man and a woman? A man is reason, logic, action, external relations, expansion, conquest, strategy. A woman is emotions, feeling, relationships, deep connections, acceptance, attraction, tactics. The man goes out, the woman goes in. A man conquers a woman, a woman attracts and holds a man. A man protects and ensures external stability of relationships, a woman supports and ensures internal stability. Often these features are reduced to the concepts of activity - passivity and power. It is not correct to think that a man should be active and have power, while a woman should be given a passive role, one should submit. In fact, these are different aspects of a single structure. And only when a man and a woman are active and effective, each in their own aspect, will they be able to build a truly harmonious relationship. They will have no need to compete, they will not be competitors. Science has proven that a woman is naturally more adaptive, and “other people’s roles” are easier for her, so it turns out that we ourselves sometimes do not allow our men to be men. Playing by men's rules, we.