From the author: The purpose of my article today is to show examples from different people’s lives. Colleagues, if you describe your bright cases in the comments, using at least one example, it will be very useful for our work and for future clients! Hello, dear colleagues and readers! The purpose of my article today is to show examples from different lives of people (a few examples, not all, of course. I will be glad if you add in the comments) that they were given visits to psychologist. Beautiful and Clever Elena, 33 years old. I came to the verge of despair. The third time I left my husband, a slacker and a rude man. Who constantly offended her, did not support his family and cheated almost openly. Previously, in similar situations, he called her back, promised that he would change, and she returned. I really wanted to believe. Then she began to regularly deceive herself and justify him. And life, in general. After all, everyone around (her and his entourage) has the same thing, or even worse. She felt sorry for him and tried to correct him, she spoke only about his needs....He, he, he...Where is she? After several consultations, she learned not to lie to herself and see how, in fact, she lives with him: she works, provides for herself and her daughter, and he is just a parasite on her neck, who also does not mind torturing her. I realized that she couldn’t help HIM with her changes. What help you and your daughter need. I saw a scenario of a codependent relationship that came from my mother and learns to love myself. 9 months (just like carrying a child) she gives birth to a new self, separate from the sick relationship. She has a happy life ahead and another romance with different values ​​and scenarios. Andrey, the son of successful parents. A person who was cared for until he was 30 years old. Authoritarian father and soft mother. And here's what it's like for dad! He is not able to provide for himself. Divorced, ex-wife and son. Regular drinking and loss of meaning in life. As a result of 2 months of consultations, I took up sports, lost 5 kg, quit smoking, and stopped drinking. He works at the company in a managerial position and very often takes care of his son. Looking for new love and developing himself and a business that he didn’t even know about a couple of months ago. Angelina. Business lady. 40 years. There is no husband or children. She came with signs of depression and apathy. Loss of meaning in life and desire to work. After 2 months of life coaching, life unfolds in all colors. She went to the dance and socializes in a club of similar interests with other women and interesting men. She got a dog and loves her. She is being looked after by a wonderful man, although younger than her. By the way, he earns more than her, and his character is tougher. Katerina. Breast cancer. Several broken relationships with men. Fear of going out and going to work. After 2 months of consultations, I went on vacation to the seaside, is planning a new business with my daughter, learned to say “no” to unpleasant people and take care of my beauty. The whole mountain has been completely transformed in appearance and plans. Now she knows exactly what is valuable and important to her, what people are interesting to her, and how long it will take for her to finish building her dream house... And there are a lot of such situations! The main point is - take a STEP on the path to yourself! You were born to be happy. And if this is not so, THEN IT CAN BE CHANGED! IT NEEDS TO CHANGE! Of course, there will be no magic pill. BUT your efforts on the path to yourself and a better life are WORTH IT! If the article was useful to you, like it or write comments, your feedback is very important to me. Colleagues, if you describe your brightest cases in the comments, at least one example - this will be very useful for our work and for future clients!