"It's time to get up!", "Work again!", "Family - don't sit down!", "Hurry up and go to bed." How often does a busy woman under constant stress say these words? Almost every day. On the one hand, what a blessing that store shelves are simply filled with books on self-rescue, self-development, self-healing... self, self, self... There is an opportunity to recover without anyone’s help and at any time. But is it really such happiness in itself...? Probably, for men this is very happiness and very important in life. So, they become real men, because they grow only through their own life experiences. However, “itself...” in the lives of women is a completely different matter. Femininity, and therefore a woman’s state of happiness, can only manifest itself next to a courageous, independent man. As soon as she becomes overly independent and begins to do some of the men's work, she ceases to be feminine and thereby provokes her man to become less masculine. He stops showing some of his masculine qualities: “Who needs them?” - such a man will ask. "Who needs you like that?" - the woman will later ask, thereby offending her man even more and not suspecting that it was she who “helped” him become like this, taking away his status as the owner and head of the family. Probably, now many women reading this article are violently indignant: “What So, now we can’t live at all? What, we can’t even become better than our idiot and be worse than him? And if he doesn’t want to do anything in the house, then let there be destruction? No, dear women, of course not! First, don't let the article get you down. Secondly, the secret lies in complete acceptance of your chosen one, with all its pros and cons. This is very difficult and almost impossible if you are guided by your mind and not your heart. Thirdly, in society you can hold any position, but in the house you are MARRIED. And fourthly, without knowing your purpose and meaning of life as a woman, it is difficult to build harmonious relationships both with yourself and with a man. With age, most women begin to feel their true nature, which is not formative, but more form-filling. Female energy does not have a clear direction vector and therefore it needs it from the outside so as not to disappear and become scattered. But men, on the contrary, feel how boring it is to wander among empty forms and are looking for one that will fill it, give content and meaning to its forms as beautifully, wisely and harmoniously as possible. In other words, male energy is form, thought, movement, etc., and female energy is the initial energy, peace, the material from which every form is created and filled, and also with which it is surrounded. Thus, female independence can have the scale of her personal space, where her internal male and female energies interact. And even here, making this or that decision about self-improvement, it would be wise on her part to share her thoughts about this with her man. This way he will know that his opinion is important to her, which means that he himself is important to her. When building a relationship with a man, it is important for a woman to be an inspirer, not a tamer. Her task is to help a man believe in himself. And this is possible, including when she does not intercept his affairs, but takes care of her own, which, sometimes forgetting, gives rise to dissatisfaction and irritation within the family. Woman - keeper of the hearth.