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Some women in relationships set one of their main goals, if not to completely change a man and his character, then at least to some extent to force him to do what, in the woman’s opinion, is necessary. This is due solely to the picture of the world and ideas about reality that the woman herself has in her head, either she approves of such things when she sees them in the world around her, or not.. In other words, these are expectations of what a man should do, in features in relation to the woman herself. Such pressure may not always be expressed in the form of harsh pressure; much more often, women, using their natural cunning, try to manipulate men in order to achieve goals that, in her opinion, are significant. At the same time, they completely lose sight of such an important aspect in relationships as sincere support. In my opinion, this is due to the fact that a woman may be very afraid of being rejected by a man if she makes a request directly, and it also seems much easier for a woman to use manipulation. Moreover, as they write in various sources, this method is very effective. One of the most dangerous methods of manipulating a woman towards a man, in my opinion, is denying a man sex. The negative consequences of such actions can very quickly affect the relationship itself and hurt the woman herself. Sex for a man is not only an act of love, but also an opportunity to relieve and get rid of internal tension; in addition, this action helps a man reduce the amount of natural aggression, throw it out, which is not so easy in other ways. When a woman, pursuing some of her goals regarding changing a man’s attitude towards herself, deprives him of intimacy, then at the first stage it may seem that the man really begins to do what the woman wants from him. However, if a man begins to receive tenderness and intimacy only if he performs some actions (buying a fur coat, a necklace, a tablet), then soon the relationship moves to the level of natural exchange, in which there are no feelings. “You give me a ticket, I’ll give you sex.” This is a kind of training for a man, where sex is a delicious candy, but you can only get it by completing a certain task. A man has a feeling that, by not receiving intimacy, he is guilty of something, and this, in most cases, reminds him very much of how his parents punished him as a child by depriving him of sweets. But he is already an adult and now he can buy himself candy. When a man comes to understand what is actually behind the attempts to limit him in sex on the part of a woman, then he can quite possibly make a decision for himself that he does not need sex under such conditions. And then the intimate relationship in such a couple ends. Another option for the development of the situation could be the fact that the man takes a mistress. If he doesn’t want or can’t, for some reason, break up with a woman trainer (children, mortgage, health condition), but it is with her that he will receive the much-needed release and emotional support that he was deprived of in previous relationships. It is also possible that a man, realizing how he is treated and why, will simply leave this woman, not even in search of another, but because he does not want to be an object of training. In any case, a woman who uses sexual manipulation loses, as does the relationship as a whole. In my opinion, when communicating with a partner, you need to show more honesty, men appreciate this, and be ready to hear “no” from him, while understanding his reasoning. Even if a man did not please a woman today, then tomorrow the situation may change, for this you should not lie, first of all, to yourself. Any manipulation in a relationship is not completely safe. Live with joy! Anton Chernykh.