From the author: According to statistics, there are more and more divorces in the Russian Federation and the issue of binuclear families and assistance to them is becoming more acute. Relations between spouses during periods of normative crises, as a rule, reach a dead end and a dilemma arises: or figure it out, talk, go to a psychotherapist/psychologist, or continue to live in this dead end, acquiring an increasing number of dysfunctions, symptoms that are so well described by various family psychotherapists, or get a divorce. The situation of divorce, despite what it seems - eureka, here it is the decision nevertheless has lasting consequences. In Europe, divorce is considered a severe loss comparable to the death of a close relative, and according to this idea, spouses are given the opportunity to undergo free individual psychotherapy. Whether help was provided or not, life goes on and as a result of divorce, so-called binuclear families are formed, in which there are two nuclei, that is, two parents who may or may not remarry. And often in such families, issues of interaction at two completely different levels are mixed - marital and parental, and this interaction is far from functional. The whole family suffers from this, including the child or children..