Many smart books and scientific treatises have been written about female sexuality, but this phenomenon has never been fully studied. It would seem that just recently your lady, a volcano of passion, did everything possible and impossible to please you, but today she doesn’t even look in your direction. She finds various reasons to evade lovemaking. And if the husband still manages to seduce her, it seems as if he was done a favor. The husband is racking his brains, looking for reasons within himself, and doesn’t understand what he’s doing wrong. This is a familiar situation for many men. Today, an increasing number of women, having received the status of married ladies, forget about the intimate component of marriage. They are quite happy with a quiet, measured life, in which there is no place for sex scenes. What influences a woman's sexuality? Maybe the environment is to blame for everything? What should a spouse do if the wife tries to evade her marital duty by every means known to her? If you think carefully, these are not only the problems of the husband, but also the wife. The lack of intimate life has a negative impact on the physiological and psychological components of a woman’s life. The lack of opportunity to relax leads women to neuroses and deterioration of relationships with their husbands. The husband does not understand why his wife refuses him affection. After all, he is always ready to have sex. Until recently, she constantly lacked sex; sometimes, he could not satisfy such an insatiable person. Does his wife really not love him anymore? What happened to her now? The reason for refusal of sex can be not only the indifference to the partner. Often, the husband is either not at all to blame for the fact that a woman has ceased to be interested in sex, or is only partly to blame. Let's look at the most common reasons for this situation. Why a woman doesn't want sex Overwork Overwork, chronic lack of sleep can have a significant impact on a woman's sexual desire. Exhausted at work, overloaded with everyday worries, dreaming of a full week of sleep, a lady is unlikely to be passionate in bed. What does a tired wife think about when she comes home from work? There is a swarm of thoughts in her head: about a quarrel with a colleague, about an unfulfilled plan, about what she will cook for her children and husband for dinner, about how soon she will get to bed and fall asleep. There are a lot of thoughts, but they are all far from intimate. It is very difficult for a tired wife to switch to another wave, all her thoughts are occupied with household and work concerns. A husband who experiences a strong sexual desire is ready to forget about everything at this moment. He does not suspect that his wife also cannot quickly distract herself from extraneous thoughts. The sexuality of men and women is quite different. A man is able to burn with desire, discard everything unnecessary, and devote himself entirely to sex. A woman feels differently; she needs some time to tune into an intimate mood. Without a psychological attitude, the wife will not get pleasure, no matter how hard the husband tries. Therefore, one has to refuse affection from the faithful. Diet How many articles have been written on the topic of diets, how many programs have been devoted to this topic. Everyone should have realized long ago that some diets lead to metabolic disorders and should be accompanied by the intake of vitamins and minerals. But many ladies, in pursuit of a beautiful figure, do not bother to study the diet recommended by a friend or work colleague. The result of the fight against extra pounds is a weakened nervous system and decreased sexuality. And the husband, looking at his wife, embittered from hunger, does not understand why she stopped wanting intimate caresses. But what kind of intimacy can we talk about if only a juicy sausage and a delicious cake flashes before the eyes of the missus? Pregnancy During pregnancy, many women refuse sex. They are afraid that making love will negatively affect the health of the baby in the womb. In addition to fear for the well-being of the child, the expectant mother experiences embarrassment due to the fact that the child is close to intimateplace and making love will make him uncomfortable. But these stereotypes are far from the truth. If your pregnancy is progressing normally, there is no threat of miscarriage, nothing can stop you from making love to your husband. This will not cause any inconvenience to the baby or harm his health. Some ladies believe that during pregnancy they look unsexy and it will be unpleasant for their husband to look at their body. But if your spouse is truly in love with you, then he will be proud that you are carrying his child. Your appearance will not cause negative emotions in him, and having sex will bring him joy. Therefore, you should not have a complex, immediately come to bed with your spouse and have fun with him. A positive attitude will benefit both you and your baby. Passivity A woman's sexuality often depends on her initiative in the marital bed. But in many families it is accepted that active actions should come only from the man. This also applies to having sex. This situation most often occurs when a girl becomes the wife of someone she has long dreamed of. A strong man who can solve all women's problems is the dream object of many ladies. It is very convenient and comfortable to live with someone who is able to take care of you and protect you from all possible problems. However, getting used to living according to her husband’s instructions, a woman loses her individuality, and with it her sexuality. Such a wife plays the role of a slave, this also applies to relationships in bed. This is convenient, but does not in any way affect the development of female sexuality. It is natural that constant passivity and submission to the will of the husband completely kills the desire of his wife. In this case, the woman has to fake an orgasm. The wife will not refuse her husband, but she will begin to fulfill her role passively, without enthusiasm. Over time, making love will turn into a duty for her, from which she will begin to shirk. Inattention to your body One of the conditions for sexuality is to focus attention on your body. When the figure leaves much to be desired, and climbing the stairs turns into torture, not even the slightest signs of sexuality are observed. This applies to both overweight women and those who simply do not pay enough attention to gymnastics. Do you want to experience orgasms and experience indescribable emotions during sex? Look at your own body from the outside, take care of its attractiveness. Without physical activity, the body catastrophically loses flexibility and grace. It becomes insensitive, does not respond to sexual caresses, and during them the woman will feel tickling or lie like a log. Infrequent meetings One of the reasons a woman refuses sex is infrequent sexual relations with her husband. On weekdays, both spouses are immersed in work; weekends are most often devoted to solving everyday problems. Free time is spent separately and devoted to individual hobbies: the husband tinkers in the garage, the wife visits beauty salons, goes shopping. It may seem that an excellent situation is being created in order to yearn for each other and devote the night to violent sex. However, in reality, everything happens quite the opposite. Spouses love each other, they tell their friends and colleagues about their family, devote all their thoughts to their halves, but with their bodies they constantly move away from each other. For a full-fledged physical relationship, memory is necessary on the physical level, which is lost over time in such spouses. In order for her to return, the spouses need to make love to each other more often. Men's forgetfulness. A careless attitude towards the requests of their spouses on the part of their husbands is one of the common reasons for a woman’s reluctance to have sex. A wife often asks her husband to repair something. Husbands who do not have memory problems do this quickly and in advance. The rest answer all reminders briefly: “I forgot.” The woman is angry, believing that “today he forgot to fix the tap, and tomorrow he will forget about me.” What kind of full-fledged sex can we talk about if a woman remembers all the unfulfilled promises.