“I am a self-sufficient woman. I have a career, my appearance is normal. But I want happiness here and now! And the smartest thing I did in my life: I married a “mama’s boy.” I liked it so much – I saw it at work and immediately picked it up. He stood out from everyone else - very clean, polite, without unpleasant jokes, well-read, played the piano professionally, and even sang romances. I married him to myself. And she did this by making friends with the number one woman in his life, who is usually called Baba Yaga - we are, of course, talking about his mother-in-law. Only women, without a future in their family life, can call Their Blood Baba Yaga. I call my mother-in-law, the main woman in my husband’s life, by her first name and patronymic. I am not just friends with her (in different cases in different ways!), but I respect her as an older comrade and more competent. I myself came and told her that her son is my favorite, that I know about his merits and shortcomings. But I am concerned about its unrealized merits. And how to develop them is a difficult question for me, and I came to ask her about it. Moreover, there is something that prevents him from becoming more perfect. This was and remains absolutely true. I know that my beloved is a “mama’s boy,” but this not only does not offend me, but gives me additional leverage for what I consider my main duty - the development of his abilities. And now he passes on his abilities to our children. And my family happiness would not exist if I started a stupid woman’s war with my mother-in-law for a place next to my husband. Sometimes I wanted to tell him: do as I said, and not as SHE did! But then I pulled myself together - is my pettiness worth family happiness?” So, what do we see from the story - what is the psychological course of the woman? The fact is that the woman, wanting to have a happy family, changed the appearance of the object: she abandoned the image of a “mama’s boy” and his “grandmother hedgehog”, and began to see him as a loved one, and her as an older, more competent comrade. She reflected on her pettiness and nonsense. She looks at what is happening - broadly, as if from the side and from above. And therefore it perfectly distinguishes the main thing from the extraneous. And all because she WANTS TO LOVE. And that’s why he loves. I would add: she looks and looks and looks at him... Like they look at someone from whom they cannot take their eyes off - he is such a source of strength for her. What would the reader add? Contact me for help not only if you want to solve your problem, but also if you want a higher quality of your life, to achieve greater success in all areas of life. Make an appointment by phone +79119887123, SMS, WhatsApp.