From the author: S-theoryTraining company PartnerRight to desire Having accepted the idea of ​​his own separation from his parents and the fact that the emergence of his own basic needs is beyond their control, the child understands that his desires are of independent value. The formation of the right to desire occurs at the beginning of the oedipal stage of development (according to Freud). Sexually charged actions during this period of life do not carry the meaning that adults put into these same actions. This is just a test of the right to have such desires. The passage of this period in a person’s life shapes his attitude towards his own desires. At this stage, the child learns to select the correct implementation of his desire or develops suppression mechanisms. If several very different actions to satisfy the same desire do not find their positive resolution, then a ban on the desire itself is formed. The right to desire is formed under the influence of the development of early sexuality and the collision of these desires with norms of behavior. This conflict has significant consequences. The child actively explores the world, looks for various ways to realize his desires, actively fantasizes, develops intellectually, creating the maximum number of opportunities for the fulfillment of desires. After all, then it will definitely be realized.