From the author: Coach consultant. I’m improving my life and helping others to do the same. Lately, my old surroundings have been shrinking, people are somehow quietly moving out of my sight. It became uninteresting with me - I couldn’t cry into my vest, I couldn’t gossip with me, I couldn’t drink, I couldn’t smoke, I couldn’t discuss TV series and the like, which is what most people’s everyday lives consist of. When I talk with my friends and clients, including about their lives: about the tasks that they seem to want to solve, about scenarios, about the fact that they themselves are the creators of their lives - I see that people listen to me, but they don't hear! Not once! They nod their heads, seem to agree with me, they can even repeat what I said to their friends, but no attempts are made to do anything, to somehow change their lives... There are only fatalists around - everything is God’s will, they did not live richly, the clairvoyant said it was written in the family... Of course, it’s convenient to blame it on fate. Allegedly, I tried, but the villainous fate did not allow me to live as I dreamed. Yes, there is a certain purpose for which we come into this world. And it doesn’t have to be as global as, for example, coming up with pills for everything or creating a perpetual motion machine. Our life is working on ourselves. Everything is simple to the point of impossibility. And what methods you will make yourself better is up to you to decide. In essence, destiny is a task. The solutions are your choice. If you don’t have money, this is your choice, if your wife leaves you, your husband is also your choice, if you have a job you don’t like, this is your choice. Fate is not a villain; on the contrary, it promotes any of your desires. The main thing is to really want it. But it’s scary to do! Because any of our dreams usually involve changes in life. And the brain is designed in such a way that it does not like change. And then it begins: - they wanted a lot of money - a block immediately appeared - money is evil, the rich are all thieves, money doesn’t buy happiness... - they wanted to travel - fear - traveling is dangerous, no matter what happens... - marry a a successful man - so a high-status man needs a high-status woman, and I... - give birth to children - and where to get money for them, why create poverty... - monetize a hobby - what if they don’t buy it, I’ll die of hunger... etc. We have freedom of choice, but we refuse it because we are afraid to change something. And, of course, we come up with all sorts of excuses for ourselves. And we continue to live as we lived - unhappily... Well, they still live... Maybe readers will have a false opinion about people in the helping professions, I mean coach consultants and psychologists, as white, fluffy creatures with a luminous halo above their heads. At least about strange people, not like everyone else...I hasten to disappoint you), dear subscribers and readers, we, including myself, are ordinary people who are not without shortcomings and have their own “skeletons” in the closet. The whole difference is that at one time we asked the question: “Who am I? What is my purpose? How can I be useful to this world? and, most importantly, we are not afraid of changes and continue to learn and work on ourselves. And not just work, but “plow” every day, dealing with your “cockroaches”. You will be even more surprised, but such a life is a thrill! Surprised? Yes, we are the same as you, only we have tools in our hands - knowledge, practice, techniques with which we know how to work and are ready to help you, dear ones, improve your life and become happier, more aware, self-confident, knowledgeable your goals, ready to follow your dreams. Living in a coaching style means becoming better yourself every day and helping everyone who WANTS to become better. What about the environment? - Who is not with me?) oh well - this is also your choice.