The work of a psychologist: Interesting and Useful 678 Good afternoon, Dear Friends! And you and I continue to study the work of a psychologist and its various features, we continue to share our experience and knowledge accumulated during practice. I bring to your attention the six hundred and seventy-eighth article in the series. An alternative to fear, an alternative that we can offer the client, can be joy. It's hard to be happy and afraid at the same time. It is important to understand what and who our client is happy about. I suggest you decide in what situations, what fears you can work with this way. Here I offered only an idea for work. For example, this may be a case when it is difficult for a person to move forward in life, to decide on something, to change the same job. And it is also important to understand in a number of cases whether it could be that our client lives so that someone I was happy for him. But really, who is happy to see him when he comes home, for example? Who rejoices at his success? These questions can also help in your work. About other things. We cannot guarantee the client that everything will be good and correct. About something else. When working with a client, it is important to understand whether he wants to change something, or whether he just wants to sort something out, understand something. Does he want or need to? This is also important to understand. About something else. Probably even the opposite... The client has cancer and is approaching death. He talks about it freely and discusses it with loved ones. What about the psychologist? How free is he on this topic? How freely can he talk about the client's death with the client? Here we can also add that in some cases we work with the consequences of trauma, and now trauma is happening in the client’s life... Here, rather, we are required to provide support first of all. Here we may encounter the fact that the client denies problems, for example. This is normal at a certain stage (as a stage of experiencing grief, this situation can be considered as grieving about one’s fate and one’s life.) If we continue with the last case, then it is also important to understand both about a person’s desire to live and about his desire to die. If we see a strong desire to die, a “skew” in this direction, it is important to understand why. You can understand about the desire to die by asking the client about the desire to live. “Yes, I don’t want all this...!” Here is another topic for discussion. Do you also want to share something? Please write below in the comments! It will be important and interesting for everyone to learn something useful for their work or just for themselves! Thank you for your attention! The next, six hundred and seventy-ninth article in the series will be published soon, tomorrow or the day after tomorrow! Sign up for a consultation: + 7 - 9 6 5 - 3 1 7 - 5 6 - 1 2 If you liked the material, please click on “Say thanks”! In order not to miss anything interesting, subscribe to my publications! And please share, material on social networks! :)