Our responsibilities in a person’s adult life do not always coincide with our desires at that time. We are talking about responsibilities in general here. Not only in the professional sphere, but also in relationships with close friends, parents, the opposite sex, significant people in life. Our life is generally full of one or another responsibilities all the time. Regardless of our gender, nationality, race, age, financial situation and social status in society. And again, regardless of all these factors, we all regularly face a conflict of desires and responsibilities. One of the simple ways to cope with the intense stress caused by this conflict between desires and responsibilities is to replace the word "should" in your mind with the word " Want". No matter how stupid it may sound to you at first glance. In this way, it is quite possible to influence our subconscious through consciousness. This method allows us to turn the current situation into a positive direction and make the situation more understandable and solvable for ourselves. At the same time, we must, of course, not forget another very important point. With what we have to do, there are usually no difficult questions or misunderstandings. In the vast majority of cases in life, we clearly know what and to whom we owe. But with the question of our desires, often in a large number of cases everything is not so transparent and clear. And when you have this very conflict of important desires with necessary responsibilities, you must clearly understand for yourself what exactly your desires are at the moment, what actually needs to happen for you so that you are satisfied with life and consider the desire fulfilled. That is, what exactly do you want, specifically. Sometimes such a very targeted awareness can even cancel a desire and thereby nullify the conflict within a person. To change “should” to “want” you need three things: - honesty towards yourself; - willingness to accept any, in the limit all possible, consequences; - see your positive contribution to what has happened and accept it.