If a woman is a psychologist, she helps others get married and build relationships as couples and she does it very well, but at the same time She herself is in no hurry to get married - what does this mean? Does this mean that such a psychologist is a “shoemaker without boots”? Is she considered a professional in her field, can she help others build relationships and families? Is she then even considered a professional if she herself was unable to save her family or if she never even had a trace of one? So many questions...Or if a psychologist did not save her own family and is now in the status of a free and divorced woman, this should alert her clients, because how can someone who couldn’t even help herself be able to help, or is there nothing wrong with that? Here's what I'll tell you: everyone has the right to their own life, to their own choices and decisions, and the psychologist too. We are all human, and we are all completely different. And all this doesn’t matter at all if this woman is truly a great specialist and a professional in her field. If a psychologist knows how to help others, then what difference does it make if she herself doesn’t want to get married or doesn’t have a family? What difference does it make if it's her own choice? The main thing is that this should not be “dictated” by any of her own past traumas or fears of possible failure. The main thing is that it is simply her true desire to consciously create a family with exactly the right person for herself, and therefore she is in no hurry. After all, everything has its time. But if a psychologist is very worried about the fact that she is not yet married, and this could somehow have a bad effect on her reputation and therefore something urgently needs to be done about it, then I would still be fine I thought, in the place of clients, whether to turn to such a specialist for help at all... The fact is that in our society there is still an opinion that a happy and fulfilling woman is only a married woman, and nothing else. After all, this is precisely what seems to be the whole meaning of any woman’s life. This idea applies to everyone, including, of course, female psychologists too. Well, how could it be otherwise? After all, if you are free, it means that “no one will marry you,” but if a man is single and free, he is just a free bird and his own master, who may be quite satisfied with this order of affairs in his life . And I think that this is completely unfair. The same applies to divorced psychologists. If a woman divorced because she realized that there was no point in being together anymore and creating the illusion of a happy family for society, would it really be more correct to continue to endure and be unhappy? I think that not at all, of course. After all, you must first of all always be extremely honest with yourself. And everything else is just a matter of time, everything will still happen, everything will follow. Therefore, I wish all of us more understanding and wisdom. Well, and love, of course! Good luck! My course for women who want to be happy in a relationship with a man: here Sign up for a consultation with me: here If the article was useful and interesting for you, do not forget to click “thank you” and also subscribe so as not to miss my new articles) With Best regards, Your psychologist, Victoria Kirsta