Many are afraid and ashamed of their envy. In psychological consultations, clients avert their eyes and admit that they envy someone, wondering how to deal with it. While envy is one of the social emotions that is completely normal, because any emotion is just a marker that something is happening that needs to be paid attention to. Envy is an emotion that signals the dissatisfaction of certain needs when we comparing yourself to someone else. Envy is a marker of true desire. Desires that are ashamed to admit, desires for which there is no permission within a person. In common people, envy is divided into “black” and “white”, I would say that “black” envy is “I want this too” + “I will never have this / I’m not worthy of it” = “I I’m mad that you have this.” And a white curl is “I want this too” + “I will have this too” = “I’m happy for you, now I have a new desire/goal.” Envy can become a resource pointing to our true desires and a hint where we need to move next in life. If we believe that we can do it too, if we allow ourselves to want it, to strive for it, if we respect and accept our path, without devaluing everything with the thoughts “she already has it now, why should I get it later.” Each of us has a different start, each of us needs a different amount of time to get something desired and important, this is good and bad, you are lucky in one thing, the other is lucky in something else, it is important to simply admit this, allowing yourself pace in achieving true goals and dreams. Don't give up on your desires, because it's either now or never. Respect your path and your pace. Be inspired and motivated by your desires, recognize your right to them, allow you to go towards them as much time as you need. Feel gratitude to someone who, with their achievement, a realized dream, showed you that this is possible, and it turns out that you really want it, you want it so badly that you envy.