We have already talked about gross mistakes women make in relationships in one of the articles. And today I want to add to this list so that there are fewer mistakes in your life that destroy any relationship. It is especially dangerous when this happens in the early stages of a relationship. Then there is a risk that your romance will fall apart without continuation. However, experienced wives often make these mistakes. So...1. Raising a man. Dear girls, please remember once and for all: you cannot take an adult and re-educate him! You cannot completely replace established values, worldviews, and habits at the age of 30-40. They took 30 (40, 50) years to form!!! In addition, upbringing is absolutely not the function of a wife, girlfriend, or partner. This is the mother's function. And you cannot suddenly become a mother for your loved one, will you agree? What to do? Accept the man for who he is. With his habits, view of the world, values. Or don't contact him at all.2. Rivalry with a man. By rivalry I mean not only to compare “who is stronger, smarter, better.” When you stubbornly defend your point of view, this is also competition. A man cannot compete with a woman, so he will see you as a man whom he needs to overcome. What to do? You are a wise woman, so let your man feel a little higher than you, a little smarter than you, and, of course, stronger . Activate your feminine energy. Leave rough competition to men - this is their territory. and we know how to achieve our goal in other ways.3. Condemnation of a man. How often do we pour out our dissatisfaction on our loved ones! How we want everything to be exactly as we have imagined in advance! And when in reality something doesn’t turn out the way we dreamed, we begin to grumble and blame the man. What happens as a result? We are killing men's initiative and determination in the bud. The man simply “deflates” and refuses to do anything. What to do? First, when giving a task to a man, really evaluate his abilities for this matter. It is quite normal that your loved one may not be able to do or know something. In this case, you don’t need to expect miracles from him. Second, focus on praise. Praise a man more often for what he has done well, encourage him in his endeavors. Then he will more often take the initiative and offer you his help more often. And I can’t wait to meet you personally and help you with a free consultation ==> http://goo.gl/forms/EGJBCYODNpA9sYjk2 With love, Anastasia Luchkina Women's coach, relationship expert