From the author: sexologist-psychotherapist, family psychologist. expert on television programs, member of the professional psychotherapeutic league, master of NLP, educational psychologist, specialist in the eastern version of neuroprogramming, specialist in personal well-being and family relationships, trainer, coach, esoteric psychotherapist. The author of more than 500 articles on a variety of problems, which you can see by looking at the *articles* section and, probably, this will already help solve your problem. The author of more than 100 training programs, as you can see by visiting my video channel on YouTube and typing “Afanasyeva Lilia.” From my practice as a psychologist-sexologist, psychotherapist and family psychologist, I know that such fear sometimes appears in girls and prevents them from building harmonious couple relationships. Moreover, if we live with our fears, then they tend to come true. This is well known to all experienced family psychologists, sexologists and psychotherapists. My client had a similar story. The girl from Moscow was about 30 years old. At the time of contacting me, the client did not have a serious relationship, but it was understood that it was time to start a family, and this fear introduced its negative component and further complicated the problem of building a family. This is what I began to work with as a psychologist, sexologist and psychotherapist . Women's sexual problems were identified, such as difficulties with achieving orgasm - we corrected all of this. Here was the classic work of a sexologist: removing blocks and sexual clamps, eliminating thoughts about one’s frigidity and female inferiority. And then we have already moved into the psychogenetic and karmic layer of work, as well as towards the girl’s fears. I would like to note that quite often the basis of our fears is some kind of hereditary or karmic aspect, especially when they are deep enough and, in theory, should not be characteristic of to this person. So it was in this case. We plunged into psychogenetics, the sphere of problems transmitted through the family, and came up with a memory when this problem was “picked up” by the client. The girl saw some lady whose husband had been taken to war, and she was left without a husband, pregnant. The woman looked downcast, and the client said: “She doesn’t know how to continue living and what to do?” We had to solve this problem. To do this, it was necessary to make positive changes in the client’s psychogenetics, and we continued to analyze the situation. It turned out that the woman married him, the man was originally a military man. The man was a conqueror by nature, had a rather warlike character, as the client said: “You can’t change him, he is the way he is.” Then the woman was offered 2 options for the development of events. The first is that she could choose another man. Or the second - one could go to another country, where there would be no war, and live there. Of these options, taking into account the character of the man, the woman chose the first option, and, indeed, she meets a man who was a successful trader and could provide family. All experienced family psychologists, sexologists and psychotherapists know that we can make positive changes in difficult birth situations, and thus change the situation in a positive direction. And as it turned out, this man was not interested in the war, since he was family-oriented. It would seem that everything worked out quite well, but another problem arose. There was not enough love for this second man, and she was drawn to the military man. If everything had remained like this, then, despite all her prosperity, the woman would not have been happy. We had to work with this aspect. We endowed this man with the qualities that a military man had - humor, fun and wit. When the necessary changes were achieved, the client removed the problem of being a single mother. She was symbolized by a lonely figurine. In return, she received a couple figurine (there were 2 figures), which the client called for herself “couple instinct.” That’s the decision.