Why should I NOT lose weight? I think everyone will find people around them who have repeatedly tried to lose weight, but unsuccessfully, or with unstable results. What are the reasons for this phenomenon? It seems that a person eats correctly and even exercises, but there is no desired result. The true reasons, most often, are hidden in our unconscious. Such a person definitely has a reason why losing weight is dangerous and harmful. Often overweight people, due to their weight, expand their boundaries, the boundaries of their self. It happens that a person thinks that this is the only way they will be able to notice him and take him into account. The feeling of significance is very important and no other ways have been found. And some young ladies try to hide behind excess weight, to hide their femininity and sexuality. They want to be noticed as a person, a professional in their field, and to be taken more seriously. Excess weight may hide sexual desires that cannot be realized for one reason or another. Emotions and feelings that cannot find a way out are hidden in extra pounds. There are also those for whom excess weight helps protect themselves from jealousy (if I lose weight, my husband will become jealous of me, but for me this is unbearable). And some say - my husband loves me like this. Perhaps they are afraid that with extra pounds, their husband’s love will also disappear? For many, being slim is associated with something very difficult and obliging to conform. And making commitments is scary. And it’s difficult to live up to. This problem affects not only women, but also men. Excess weight can also hide unfulfilled ambitions, “hardly anyone dreams of a plump prince on a white horse, so I can relax.” Or “I’m not a macho man, so don’t try to please women or advance your career.” In fact, we can unconsciously find many different reasons not to lose weight. But it turns out that the real reasons are not excess weight at all. That is why, if you want to effectively lose weight with lasting results, then you cannot do without psychological work. Let's discuss?