It really turns out that our life today dictates to us multifaceted rules of the game. A modern woman needs to be both smart and beautiful, she doesn’t have to choose. Women are characterized by perfectionism that if they take on something, then do everything perfectly. As survey statistics show, 9 out of 10 women strive to do everything “perfectly.” Nature also gave women the ability to do everything at once and take on many things. It is not without reason that the classics wrote about this property of women: “she will stop a galloping horse and enter a burning hut.” If we remember how our great-grandmothers lived, it will become clear where this property comes from. Previously, a woman was responsible for the grooming of her husband, and for the grooming of children, and for the household, and for cooking, and for the cleanliness of the house. I had to do everything at once. Now there is no farm, there is work, but the instinct that all the balls should be in place remains. So women are trying to combine both career and family. But the most important thing in the pursuit of such a combination of everything in one is that it is very important to listen to YOUR desires, and not to the stereotypes imposed by society. For example, I know many examples of women giving up successful careers for the sake of children, and they were happy about it. They built a career because “it’s the right way,” and when the time came to choose between children and career, they gladly chose family and children. Not all girls like to become careerists and spend most of their lives on business trips, negotiations and meetings. Some people like to be more involved with family and children. As practice shows, the happy woman is not the one who is torn between her career, work, fitness and family, but the one who does what she loves. In pursuit of the “ideal,” it is better not to catch up with it, because when everything is perfect, everything is very boring, and for loved ones it is very difficult. After all, an exorbitant burden of all sorts of demands and responsibilities falls on them. A little chaos always brings more creativity into life and at that moment your glass becomes not half full or empty, but simply filled with champagne! And such glasses are always full. For those who want to understand all areas of their life, I can offer the following technique - “Wheel of Life Balance”. This technique will allow you to see what gap exists between your areas of life. Which of them “sink.” To do this, you need to draw a circle on a piece of paper and divide it into 8 sectors. Each sector is a specific area of ​​your life, for example, love, health, work, finances, etc. You decide the name yourself. We take the center of the circle as 0 and draw equal segments from it in all directions along the rays. Our maximum value is ten; accordingly, we divide each ray into 10 equal parts. Now we determine the degree of satisfaction with each area of ​​life on a ten-point scale, mark the corresponding values ​​on the axes, and draw arcs. For example, if you are completely satisfied with your financial situation, then it can be assessed as 10 points. And health, for example, is not very satisfactory; it can be rated at 5 points. The situation in other segments that are significant to you is assessed in the same way. Ratings are all very individual and depend on your feelings. Just be honest with yourself! Example: By drawing such a wheel, you can clearly see which areas of your life are failing and where you need to focus additional efforts. Also, this version of the wheel can be made for spheres, ranking them by importance for you. This way you will clearly see which areas are most important to you. And perhaps, there is no point in spending a lot of effort and energy on those areas that are not important to you, but instead direct them to more necessary areas.