From the author: sexologist-psychotherapist, family psychologist. expert on television programs, member of the professional psychotherapeutic league, master of NLP, educational psychologist, specialist in the eastern version of neuroprogramming, specialist in personal well-being and family relationships, trainer, coach, esoteric psychotherapist. The author of more than 500 articles on a variety of problems, which you can see by looking at the *articles* section and, probably, this will already help solve your problem. The author of more than 100 training programs, which you can see by visiting my video channel on YouTube and typing “Afanasyeva Lilia.” This will be a short article, and the work was not difficult, since before that we had already conducted a certain psychotherapeutic session on my client's sexual problems. There were difficulties in achieving orgasm, sexual blocks and obstacles, fear of sex, excessive tightness and shyness. And after some time, a client from Moscow called me again, and we were already “working” to create conditions for marriage. Work on this topic is quite common. It is practiced by all psychologists, sexologists, psychotherapists and family psychologists. And here usually no difficulties arise. So, speaking to my client, a girl from Moscow. She was very amorous, she was almost always in a relationship, but she never managed to get married. After our previous work, when she came to see me as a psychologist-sexologist, psychotherapist, a little time passed, and now the girl said that she realized , she really is in some kind of dead end, which she wants to work through in order to get out of her problems, and is ready to continue moving in this direction until they are completely eliminated. I, as a psychologist-sexologist, started a consultation with her, and the first thing that came out was , there was a fear of repeating the negative experience. And, indeed, relationships often developed to a certain level. And now she has come to understand that she needs to let go of her old past relationships, which were the most significant in her life. It is known that the past pulls us back and does not allow us to be a happy person in the present moment, so as not to “pull” this negative experience behind yourself now, it’s good to settle the prayer of falling out of love and free yourself from past unnecessary feelings and negative experiences. The client remembered her ex-husband. The relationship was short-lived, but quite problematic, including the first female sexual problems, since the girl was inexperienced in the topic of sex, and the husband was quite cold and was in no hurry to kindle the fire of sexual passion in his young wife. In addition, she got rid of his strong psychological influences and stress, filling it with male support and strength in the good sense of the word. The second was the fear of indifference from men. The situation was reminiscent of her teenage years, when her friends were in relationships, but the client was not. At the moment, this no longer had anything to do with her, because the client was surrounded by the constant attention of men, and felt like a sought-after woman. Next, she saw adhesive tape on which several dark dots were drawn, which symbolized a problematic condition. The positive thing was that in this case we did not have to work through every point, because we had already sorted out all these situations and difficulties in the client’s life. And now these dots symbolized what had to be given away from oneself, freed from the past, simply as remnants of negative, unnecessary memories. After this, the girl said: “Wow, even my back felt somehow better,” and this is not surprising, since many of our problematic conditions are reflected in the spine, and the severity only accumulates over the years (if it is removed). Family psychologists, psychotherapists and sexologists know this well. Now, when I asked her about the dead end that was at the beginning of our work, the girl said that it had disappeared, and she.