They say that there is the most important thing in life. Everyone has their own concept. You can live forever and never come into contact with beauty. You can walk the path in complete darkness and not even know what the light of love is. Love, in its full understanding of the world, was inaccessible to people for many years, we lived our lives, passed each other as if in a dream, and only sometimes our path was illuminated by the shine of someone’s eyes. Once lived emotions, typical of everyone who has fallen in love at least once. , cannot happen again, not because we are incapable of love, but because love comes only when we are ready to give something to another. In a society of reigning consumerism, love has lost its meaning, and no one is looking for it in the shop of the wonders of life. She, like a girl from the 19th century, passed, gliding past us, overshadowing us with her thin silks and headed further to the one who would notice her, who would invite her into the house. Love does not ask for alms, love is life itself, it is eternal, beautiful and peaceful, and in order to comprehend love in your life you need to become love... Once told the stories of Shakespeare with the eternal Romeo and Juliet, today it is practically not understood what the meaning of such "stupid" love? They sometimes ask me, as if I know the answer, but since this is in our life, it means there is something that is more important than ourselves, there are different sensations of love and it, no matter what happens to us, is always a gift. Once I met a woman talked about how her son fell in love with a girl, but she chose another, he waited for her for some time, several years, and then, when she gave birth to a child and separated from her husband, he accepted her because he loved her deeply, he said that loved her more than himself. After some time, she finally left and left the young man; he chose drugs. It took him a year to leave this world. When his mother told him to pay attention to others, he only answered her: “I don’t need others, you see, I fell in love with her.” The flow of love energy can be so strong if we were able to call it into our lives that it completely changes everything in our life. You can live your life in a family and never know what love is, because in families the model of mutualization, exchange, or complete consumption is common. “I’m doing this for you because I have this. And if it’s not beneficial for me, then the relationship loses its meaning.” All meaning disappears when manipulation comes into play. We can learn a lot of methods on how to achieve our goal through another person, we can become happy for a short time, but completely violate the freedom of choice of the one who walks next to us. There is no and cannot be love in manipulation, because it is absolutely free. A friend of mine, who has a wonderful family, once told me that she allows her husband something, secretly hoping that he will mutually allow her to fulfill her desires. Isn’t it possible to simply allow everyone to live the way they want, and by meeting, enrich each other, without being burdened with control and manipulation? Such models lead in the future to the fact that a person loses all interest and the relationship dies. Some people dream of falling in love, having lived more than half of their life, and meeting a partner who will give them this, this and this. To the question: “Are you ready to do for your beloved man what you expect from him?” Few will answer honestly. The paradox is that you will meet your loved one only when you can sincerely give him all of yourself and are ready to serve. People with a consumer model of the world have no idea what this is. Recently, in my practice, I met an old friend, an amazing woman, with whose daughter I once studied literature. This woman with shining eyes always inspired those around her and at the same time was completely unhappy in her marriage; the only thing she valued in the relationship was children, who were gifted and talented. When the children grew up, she left her husband and finally began to live on her own, trying to build.