Envy of one's own childWhat is the benefit?Envy is the feeling that shows us our shortcomings. Something we don’t have, but we want to get it and there are all the possibilities for this. When you envy your own son or daughter, it means your inner child is both angry and grieving. He’s angry that this particular Anya or this particular Sasha is doing so well. They buy everything for them and forgive them everything. And it hurts him that he never had this. - You didn’t have what your real children have. And from this pain, your inner child may begin to harm your real children, and you will begin to get annoyed with them for no reason. And this is not just envy of toys, clothes , gifts, but also envy that your children, for example, have a loving dad that you didn’t have. Or mom. Or the opportunity to study what you want, to travel wherever you want. Or the right to talk about ourselves and respect for their feelings and needs. Envy helps us find that part within ourselves that is angry and grieving at the same time. Help yourself:✶ Recognize this envious part of yourself.✶ Understand what exactly your inner child is jealous of ? Dresses you've never owned? fifth identical doll or car? another three for which they don’t scold? unfulfilled dream of the stage?✶ Have pity on your inner child.✶ And give what you can give. Buy yourself the doll you've been dreaming of. And cut her hair, color it with felt-tip pens - or whatever you wanted to do? So what if you are already 20-30-35. Or is this some kind of cool prefabricated model of a steamship, plane, castle? Or maybe you have always dreamed of your own personal spoons and forks with cartoons, but they didn’t buy them for you? Or maybe you'll take yourself to acting classes? or for drawing? swimming? I don't know what it will be. But you know the answer for sure - it’s inside you. Envy gives us the opportunity to satisfy our needs and finally learn to love ourselves truly, respecting our desires. Tell us, you wanted to do something for yourself?