Why do some people think only about survival, others want to develop somehow, but they don’t have enough strength, time, or anything else? Basic basic needs, food, rest, safety , and sex - that's what satisfies many people. Why does this happen, why do they seem to be asleep and don’t want to wake up? People want more pleasure, more entertainment, sometimes more sleep. - Sometimes I want to go up to my husband and somehow wake him up, wake him up! A client told me during a consultation. Another girl said to herself, “It’s as if I’m not alive, I don’t know what love is.” I don’t like compliments; it seems to me that people who tell me them, even deservedly so, flatter me for their own purposes. Hugs are unpleasant to me, I don’t like them, they make me wary. Such people do not have the energy for relationships, there is no image in their minds of harmonious relationships in the family. Sometimes there is no energy for work or business, while for others their whole life is focused only on work. What is wrong with them? We all need love, acceptance, protection, affectionate words, and when a little person does not receive them from his parents, he withdraws. If close people cause pain, quarrel among themselves, ignore the child, beat him, the person gets disappointed. The child does not understand what is happening, he feels pain, resentment, fear, sometimes a whole complex of complex negative feelings. These feelings are very unpleasant, we want to get away from them at any age. An adult becomes immersed in work, some take alcohol, drugs, others begin to eat stress. Sometimes we create problems for ourselves, some kind of goals, in order to escape from these negative feelings. A child’s consciousness forgets, otherwise, it pushes the unpleasant event into the subconscious. Some people therefore practically do not remember their childhood. But in fact, we don’t forget anything, we seem to “encapsulate” negative feelings. We say that it was a long time ago, we have forgiven everyone. But the “capsule in the subconscious” does not allow us to live in peace, it takes energy, creates a bad mood, and prevents us from entering into relationships. There can be no talk of any development. A person is like a holey rubber ball - no matter how much you inflate it, the energy goes away. Dreams, spiritual development are illusory things, because there is pain inside, there is no harmony. One girl wrote to me, now it is fashionable to blame your parents for everything. There is no need to blame anyone , the meaning is completely different - you need to forgive, but do it radically, at the level of feelings, soul, and this is not an easy job that is difficult to do yourself. If the negative feelings are strong, the pain caused takes away energy, it is better to consult a specialist.