Before discussing how male loneliness differs from female loneliness, let’s talk in general about female and male nature. When we talk about the roles of men and women in the family, this topic becomes clear if we consider it from the point of view of who gives energy to their loved ones and who takes it. Not everyone knows about this, but in family life it will be much easier if you simply accept on faith the non-man-made law of the Cosmos: a woman is an accumulator of energy, which she takes literally from thin air. When a woman saw a small child laughing, she charged up. I stroked the cat and gained more strength. I walked past beautiful flowers and gained energy. I'm not even talking about trips to shops, art temples and nature. The man bought himself pants, because the old ones had already frayed in several places and could not be washed, came home, and put them back before going out. And the woman? He will come, and for another whole hour he will twirl around in the mirror, rejoice at the new blouse, try it on with everything he has and ask everyone in a row which is better. A woman accumulates energy in order to give it away. Nature has it in such a way that she must give it to her man, and then to her child. Therefore, a woman gives her energy, and a man and children receive it. From here it is clear that a woman chooses the one to whom she will give this energy, and not vice versa, as is commonly believed: it is not men who choose a woman. It follows that a woman is responsible for relationships in the family, including in the sexual sphere. In light of this theory, what do you think is the case in which a man leaves the family? The answer is simple: if he does not receive energy. Moreover, this does not happen immediately, but after several years. If we talk about the loneliness of a man and a woman from this perspective, then it becomes clear that a man simply cannot be lonely by nature. Remember a man you know who lives alone. You don't know this. Even if a man, at first glance, lives alone, then some girlfriend, neighbor, etc. is sure to come to him. Either he lives with his mother or his sister. Therefore, physically a man is never alone. If he suddenly finds himself physically alone, then this is a signal of serious danger. Many men, at 40-50 years old, seemingly in the prime of life, suddenly die. On the contrary, there are many single women. But what can happen to a woman if she lives alone? After all, she definitely needs to put her energy somewhere. Typically, such women either devote themselves entirely to work or to serving people. At worst, they get a bunch of different pets. It is single women who give birth to children “for themselves,” without requiring their sexual partner to play the role of husband and father. If a woman does not give her energy, then she begins to destroy herself, which ultimately leads to illness and death. Often her loneliness is accompanied by alcohol consumption. Often she acquires other chronic and fatal diseases. Therefore, if a man simply cannot live alone, then for a woman to live alone is dangerous for her physical and mental health. But both men and women can experience a state of existential loneliness. This is an internal state that can occur even if a person is surrounded by many people. It is usually associated with the search for or lack of meaning in one’s existence. Each person must solve this existential problem for himself, since no one can or has the right to influence the fate of another person. This power, which is beyond the limits of human capabilities... Together with Yulia Vasyukova