From the author: psychotherapist, sexologist, expert on television programs, member of the professional psychotherapeutic league, master of NLP, educational psychologist, specialist in existential neuroprogramming, specialist in personal well-being and family relationships, trainer, coachYou may have a question : Why is this material written in the “psychologist-sexologist” section. The answer here will be quite simple. We are talking about women, so there is a hint of female sexual, gynecological and urological problems. In my practice as a psychologist, psychotherapist and sexologist, I quite often work on psychosomatics specifically with cystitis, and from time to time the sexual background of the problem can be traced here. Moreover, you can even highlight a certain fragment of the work and outline it briefly, as my clients usually present it: “as soon as I’m about to have sex (or immediately after sex), I start to get cystitis.” In the first option, this often serves as a protection against do not have unloved sex, or sex with unloved (as you like). And in the second case, it discourages the desire to have sex, so to speak in the future (in general). It turns out that, by and large, the result is the same - there is no sex. The story of my client from Moscow, which I want to tell you, will be from the same series. This prompted me to write material on this topic. To begin with, the girl was slightly over 30. She was not married, but she did not sit alone either. Now she was in a relationship with a guy who was in no hurry to start sex. The girl could not yet determine for herself what the difficulty was: either male sexual problems, or his excessive shyness. But now we are not talking about that, but about the girl herself. When I started working with her as a psychologist, psychotherapist and sexologist, it turned out that she was also inhibiting the onset of the sexual phase of the relationship. And one of the reasons was cystitis. This spicy problem was also quite painful, and we decided to start with it. Here the first memories came out, where, in fact, this whole situation began. The memories were associated with the mother, and with her approach to treating her daughter, who at that time had cystitis not uncommon. The mother treated the girl exclusively with herbs, focusing more on herself , as they say, self-medicated. And when, already in adolescence, they finally decided to see a doctor and conducted a full examination, the doctor said that, judging by the tests, the girl suffered not only cystitis, but also pyelonephritis at an earlier age. In general, the disease did not produce any consequences, but still, it left its mark. To be continued….