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There can be countless answers to this question, just as many women have so many answers. Try to answer it right now: what do you need the person who is next to you? If we look at this question from the perspective of psychology, then the following are the thoughts. A woman should understand quite clearly why she needs a specific man, if we are talking about a specific person. And in general, why does she need a man if we are talking about men in general. Some for a stamp in their passport, some for sex, some for money, some as an emotional container, and so on. This is an important question that every woman must answer: what do I need this particular man for? Men can ask yourself a similar question about women. When we clearly understand what is important and central for me, then we can more calmly understand what shortcomings I can accept. Where it’s not so important for me and I can make progress in something, and so on. This common question: why do I need a man (or woman) right now? Helps us understand many things, points us to our needs and desires at the moment. By understanding our needs and requests, it will be easier for us to find the right person. In this way, you highlight a guideline for yourself. The key to a good relationship is a clear understanding of why you need this relationship. Developing this topic further, we can say that the person next to us at the moment can say a lot about us. You can analyze your previous relationships. What kind of people did you choose, what needs did they satisfy, what kind of person were you during this period. It is also possible to look towards those people you like. Each person has a set of qualities and by perceiving them we create some kind of image in our head. For example: “Katya is gentle and kind; Misha is decisive and reliable; Roma is funny” and so on. You can also work with these images. This helps you understand yourself even better, and therefore, you will have more opportunities to choose yourself and be a happy person. I suggest you an experiment. This experiment requires you, time, patience and honesty. All. Go. I will write you a series of questions, and you try to answer them: - why do I need this particular person? - what am I like next to him (her)? - by what criterion do I choose friends? - what are the similar characteristics of my close circle communication and what are the differences? - what does communication with this specific person give me? - what am I like next to him (her)? - what striking characteristics do I have? - what can I give to this specific person? Dear readers, please be patient. Don't answer these questions on the fly, without thinking. On the contrary, give yourself time to reflect. I am sure that when you find the answers to these questions, you will become a different person. You will understand yourself better, feel better, define your boundaries more clearly. I wish you an exciting journey. If during this journey you encounter incomprehensible or difficult experiences, then you can turn to a psychologist for support. All the best! Sincerely, Alexandra Kaleeva.