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From the author: "... I have feelings of love there. I hid them so that they would grow there, and now they are asking to come out..." Have you ever dreamed of a fairy tale? Or a dream in which you mastered magical powers and objects? What sensations did you experience when you woke up? Here it is - did you feel what I’m talking about?!))) Dreams can tell a lot about your true essential goal - about the whole life inside of you , which you most likely had no idea about. But the most interesting fact is that dreams continue in reality! Only they are often not realized by us - they occur in the form of unfinished movements, fleeting thoughts and moods, hidden selectivity to surrounding events and words. I, practicing procedural psychology, focus on signals that can be noticed and, strengthening them, help them to open up, revealing themselves more fully . These signals can be seen from the outside and even measured with certain skills. At the same time, such signals, as a rule, are not noticeable to the clients themselves, since they come from the deep process of a person’s dreaming, invisible from the waking state of consciousness. In fact, this dream state in waking life is the background against which the entire active side of our life unfolds. We cannot see these dreams directly (unless we get into a dream together with a person), but we notice its echoes in the manifestations of our daily life. In the work of a procedural psychologist, the main thing is the perception of the flow of events and a respectful attitude towards it, whatever it may be. Any, even the most difficult and painful problem, contains within itself the germ of its solution, which only needs to be given a little sensitivity and attention. The process psychologist acts as a facilitator, noticing what is happening, promoting the client's awareness, and trying to follow Nature as best as possible. In this understanding, for a procedural therapist there is no “right” or “wrong”, just as there is no concept of “health” and “illness” - but there is only what wants to appear from the patient’s dream and what the person needs to help with. Sometimes it happens that that clients come with questions that, at first glance, in my opinion, it is not possible to help. For example, there was one job in which the client asked for nothing less than help in getting his whole family, and, in particular, his mother, to start, as they say, dancing to his tune. However, upon closer examination, it turned out that there was simply no love in his family. And with one simple question: “Did your mother love you?” - Tears poured from his eyes. It’s too painful when your mother doesn’t love you (why? - a separate question) - and acts against you... From the stories of patients it is clear that bodily sensations and painful feelings themselves carry healing power. If sensations and feelings are allowed to express themselves - and deal with them as they arise, they automatically heal the patient. Process work does not favor any one point of view of reality over another. It is driven by experiences, and not by any standards determined by culture. In order to be able to describe any processes, whatever they may be, the language of process work is based on neutral terms that do not depend on specific conditions, goals and circumstances. This allows work with a wide range of people - from small children who cannot yet speak, to people from other countries and even other, sometimes harsh, cultures. For example, it turns out to be possible to work with extreme manifestations of Islamic culture, in which a man is everything, and a woman seems to be nothing. The approaches of procedural psychology also work great for people who are, in fact, in non-human states (altered states of consciousness, near death, suicidal tendencies). They work for entire groups and large organizations, allowing you to quickly find a solution that leads to a new stage of development, integrating different points of view, co-organizing recent opponents to new ones?;)