Nowadays, no one will be surprised by the fact that a woman can be the main breadwinner in a family, “pull” her husband and children, and “steer” at work and at home. A woman is naturally given enormous energy strength, which is why she can “stop a galloping horse and enter a burning hut”... And indeed, now there are more and more successful, financially wealthy women who have achieved career heights. But is it really the same thing - success and happiness, ordinary female happiness? When we talk about success, we mean external achievements: career, money, position in society, etc. But does this always guarantee a state of happiness? After all, happiness is something internal, which sometimes does not depend in any way on external achievements. You can have the opportunity to realize any of your material desires, but at the same time completely lose your taste for life and feel like a deeply lonely and unhappy person. So success and happiness do not always go hand in hand. And, unfortunately, especially for women! Why, you ask? Everything is very simple! In each of us there is a masculine and feminine principle, male and female energies. Male energy is directed to the external space - to conquer the world and its benefits, and female energy is directed to the internal space and serves to create a space of love - in one’s inner world, one’s home, in the world of your man. Male energy is activity, initiative, aggressiveness in action, intelligence, while female energy is peace, tranquility, fulfillment, intuition. And when a woman directs all her energy to external conquests, gradually she becomes more and more masculine, the so-called “inner man” grows in her, and it is he who achieves success - material well-being and career heights. Over time, the “inner man” in a woman becomes stronger and stronger, and feminine energies (and therefore female behavior) are becoming less and less - softness and femininity are replaced by strength and hardness, pliability and female wisdom - pressure and tough straightforwardness, the ability to yield - authority and control. And most importantly, the “inner man” with its strength begins to displace the real man from the space of such a woman. As a result, the woman is either left alone, or there is a dysfunctional man next to her, and this dysfunction, as a rule, manifests itself in the fact that he may have weakness and softness, an inability to provide for his family, he may suffer from some type of addiction (alcohol, gambling, etc.) etc.), can get sick (especially in the male line). It also happens that a strong woman still attracts an accomplished, manifested man into her life, but he is still somewhat out of her space, because either married, or lives in another city, or much younger than her. And if this is a husband, then, as a rule, he is formally in the family and in his life there is someone to whom he goes for femininity, gentleness and love. This is such a sad picture! And if you also take into account that such an inharmonious family model is completely adopted by the children, and they then live the same way, it becomes completely sad. But fortunately, everything is not as hopeless as it might seem at first glance! A woman just needs to return to her feminine nature, follow her own feminine path, and her life will immediately begin to magically change! And then you can become successful on the external plane (building a career like a woman) and happy on the internal plane! And you need to start revealing the facets of your femininity with self-love and self-acceptance, as well as with cultivating basic respect for a Man. Well, we’ll talk about how best to do this at our next meeting! With wishes of Love and Women's Happiness, Inna Ryzhkova, practicing psychologist, trainer of the Etalon center»