If you have been competing for male attention for a long time with a▫️ colleague, classmate or friend▫️ mother-in-law▫️ lover... then this article is for you.⠀In this situation, relationships with a man ALWAYS go away to the background. The fight for a man is just the tip of the iceberg. What is hidden under the water?⠀And there lies the need for female identification. This is a deep awareness and acceptance of one’s own feminine principle. The answer to the question “What kind of woman am I?”.⠀Previously, society held rituals to initiate a girl into a woman, women’s meetings were popularized, where people exchanged experiences and energy. Nowadays, there are no such traditions. Parents don’t really explain what it means to be a woman. The most that most of them can do is phrases that are harmful to the psyche, a set of stereotypes like:🔻 Don’t swear, you’re a girl!🔻 A woman must definitely wear dresses and know how to cook!🔻 The main thing for a girl - get married successfully.⠀An adult, mature woman does not compete for love and attention, because she is fulfilled in her place. Girls who are just looking for themselves compete. Many never grow up and remain in search until their death. And this is a stone in the garden not so much for fighting women, but for our culture, which misses, and even fuels this moment.⠀Our parents are a generation raised by children of war. There was no time for femininity there. And, as a result, today it is more difficult for a girl to undergo such identification.⠀Therefore, some unknowingly choose the strategy of getting to know women through competition. Such girls think that the cooler the woman they beat, the cooler they themselves become. Perhaps there is some truth in this, but in this way you will not become closer to yourself, you will not know your essence from the inside.⠀Even an old mother-in-law at first glance is jealous of her son or envies her youth. But in the depths of the unconscious, she cannot assert herself in any way, nor can she appreciate the benefits of her experience and social status.⠀Therefore, if you compete with women, start exploring your feminine side.