“Problems with orgasm, not the same sensations, I love it, but I don’t really want it” are very common problems for many women. Moreover, most often in the field of gynecology and development in general, according to doctors, everything is in order. Well, except for some microflora, with which there is almost always something not according to the regulations. In such a situation, self-esteem slowly runs out like a battery, and over time other problems arise: the body gains bodily pleasure not received in sex through the pleasure of food, for example, and this is a complete problem even for a woman who is satisfied with simulating an orgasm. Of course, new techniques in sex help some, and for others, advice from friends... often helps for years, but still can’t help. It’s not always possible to just blow and spit and fix this complex problem just like that on the Internet. Those. If your own pleasure in such an important area of ​​life really worries you and you want to solve the problem, you will most likely have to go to a specialist. But to whom? Therefore, it is important to simply understand the problem first, so that you can then choose a specialist to solve it. In fact, the question is purely psychological, since a solution always requires a reconfiguration of some parts of the psyche that until now have not behaved in sex the way you wanted. Ideally, you just need to come to an agreement. How does all this work? As a child, you had great difficulty learning to speak, pronounce sounds, make words out of them, and correctly move your facial muscles. All this was given with considerable pain. But today you are only thinking about what exactly to say. It is difficult to even imagine that this could once have caused such enormous difficulties. Now this happens easily and naturally because an automatic Part of the psyche has been created, which now works unconsciously, without distracting you from more important matters. In the same way, you once learned to walk, drive a car, etc. And now you only think about where to go or go, and everything necessary for this is done automatically by a certain Part of the psyche. Such a Part can be called an independent unit of consciousness, a holon, etc. - the essence does not change at all. You just need to correctly configure the Part that is not very successful at the moment in getting an orgasm, or simply the sensations you need from intimacy.