I don’t like children, I respect them. I respect their thoughts, behavior, desires, and even tantrums and screams. They have the right to this. They have the right to be aggressive, angry, if they are humiliated or beaten. They have the right to be offended if they are not treated fairly. They have the right to cry when they are hurt. They have the right to make mistakes. They have the right feel. They have the right to ask for attention from adults. They have the right to try, try, find out, make mistakes, serve, get up. They need acceptance, respect, attention. They are tired of moralizing. Everyone around says it right, but few people really show it by example. They notice any contradictions. They like to talk, listen, tell something, but they do not like to be constantly lectured. They need advice, but they do not perceive commanding tone well. They often protest, they do the opposite. They want to be adults, but they are constantly told that they are children. They don’t know how to behave correctly in some situations, they don’t even always understand how to ask. And also, they are very afraid. They are afraid to ask, afraid to share, afraid to express emotions, sometimes even afraid to attract attention. They close themselves off from us, needing us. They throw tantrums for a reason. They shout and are rude for a reason. Often, we ourselves are the cause of this. They feel our attitude towards them, they are very sensitive to injustice and neglect. They do not know how to correctly express their emotions, they do it as best they can, and it’s good that they give vent to their emotions as best they can . Sometimes, they just need to be taught that they should hit the pillow when they're angry, not the cat. You need to tear the piece of paper into shreds, draw lines and circles with all the pressure. Wash, do push-ups, go for a run. Tell others about your feelings. After all, they don’t know this. Children don’t necessarily need to be loved. Children need to be respected and accepted. Be an example and a mentor for them. Give them wings. I saw a phrase somewhere that really stuck with me: “Some people give students knowledge, and others give them wings.”".