The problem of building a relationship with a man who belongs to the category of “mama's boy” is quite in demand in psychological counseling. How to recognize a “mama’s boy”? Should you marry him? How to live with him? Is it possible to change a “mama’s boy”? And this is not the entire list of questions asked by women who come for a consultation with a psychologist. In order to change the situation, it is necessary to understand the reason why a woman chooses this particular partner. What does she get for herself by living with such a man? What happens if this relationship ends - will the next “mama’s boy” appear or not? In order for the choice of a partner not to be cyclical, it is the woman who needs to undergo a personal analysis by a psychoanalyst. After psychoanalysis comes understanding and knowledge of why the choice falls specifically on “mama’s boys.” In this article I would like to consider the likelihood of building a relationship with this type of man. And you can read about how it is formed in my article “If I were a man! A mama’s boy!” How to recognize a “mama’s boy” He is, first of all, characterized by his infantility. In communication, he understands everything, sympathizes, listens. In general, the dream of most women. In addition, such a man, with his immaturity, resembles a child, and in many women the maternal instinct is triggered. Well, how can you not love this... Are you ready to be a mother for the rest of your life and never (!) a wife? These men have similar ways of behavior. They should not be confused with real care for mom. While taking care of her, a man does not forget about himself, his partner and children. “Mama’s boy” does not understand at all how to build a relationship with someone other than his mother. Most women do not want to marry them, but not everyone knows their “special signs”. It is worth paying attention to the fact that it is not so easy to notice such signs. Being in society, he seems like an ordinary, very caring and attentive guy. But there are still “special signs”; it is important to pay attention to the degree of their repetition. At first, a man can be very attentive and caring, because his goal is to please you, but then his behavior changes. Special signs of “mama’s boys” Spends a lot of time with his mother. Excessively (!) caring and polite on first dates. Communicating with you or with friends, he very often refers to his mother. What and how she does and says. Constantly compares everything he sees and hears with how his mother does or would do. Giving examples, he uses the phrases: “mom said”, “mom thinks”. He runs at the first call of his mother, and it doesn’t matter that your date has just begun, or you are lying at home with a fever, and he volunteered to bring you medicine. He never argues with his mother. , always listens to everything to the end, never interrupts or expresses his own opinion in the presence of his mother (!). Constantly contacts his mother by phone, writes messages to her. Talks about how he spends all weekends, vacations, holidays with his mother. Catchphrase - “We need to consult with mom,” and it doesn’t matter whether it’s buying something important or a pie in the buffet. He withdraws into himself or becomes aggressive when any comment is made about his relationship with his mother. A man of 35-50 years old has never been married, with he can continue to live with his mother. If all of the above is present in your chosen one, it means that the young man is very strongly attached to his mother - he is a “mama’s boy.” But you still can’t order your heart. And it’s hard to resist a man who “is so wonderful and knows how to listen, and understands everything...”, but here it’s worth considering the other side. Mothers didn’t give birth to them, raise them, put their whole soul into them and not only so that he went to another. She cannot even admit that there is a woman in the world worthy of her son. This means that you should be prepared for the fact that: you will never have a male husband in your house - your man was raised only as a son, he does not know how to to be a man, a husband; you will always do everything yourself; you will have a big child; your husband’s mother will always be!