From the author: psychotherapist, sexologist, TV program expert, member of the professional psychotherapeutic league, NLP master, educational psychologist, existential neuroprogramming specialist, personal well-being specialist and family relationships, trainer, coach Continued.... “Blocks pleasantness,” when deciphering this, the following came out: “He kisses me, and I evaluate it - how do I? those. I’m resorting to rethinking, working with my brain, but I would like to just enjoy it.” These thoughts changed after processing, and the girl said: “Now I perceive and feel my man.” Then the problem came up: “I’m not responsive,” here it comes internal work went according to the scheme: “He wants sex. Come on, okay. Maybe I’ll think about it too.” And, as a consequence: “this does not provide the opportunity to relax and have fun.” I, as an experienced sexologist, psychologist and psychotherapist, had to change this pattern. But it was necessary to build chains through which the girl’s new behavior would now be carried out. The new scheme is: desirability, desire, attitude to receive pleasure, openness. Next, work began with the inability to relax. The problem was represented by a tree and a general dark state. We changed all this to lightness, light and relaxedness. Then the block came out: “Expectation of pleasure. When will it be good? Now he has become: “a catcher of pleasant moments.” And more warmth and energy appeared in the client’s body. Afterwards, the girl gave the following information: “I don’t feel pain the way others feel it.” Accordingly, she interpreted this, in general, positive moment for herself as follows: “In sex, I also won’t feel the same way as other women...”. Now, having realized that there was no point in drawing such a conclusion, which would only complicate her sexual intuition, and since there was nothing behind it other than her conclusions, she removed this problem, which looked like a crust, from herself. The client said that: “It seems to me that the sensitivity of my nerve receptors has increased.” Then a certain separation (during sex) of the head and genitals appeared. The client said that: “I think with my head, and I don’t really get pleasure, because there is no connection with the body. The clitoris gets an orgasm, as it were, independently of the head, only through friction.” We built a connection between the head and the genitals, and energy flowed both from bottom to top and from top to bottom, and then the flows united. Well, in the end there was a little work to increase self-esteem as a woman. This is a classic work of all psychologists, sexologists and psychotherapists.