From the author: If I want it, I can do it, and therefore I will do it. Any action aimed at the self-development and self-satisfaction of an individual is subject to one (only) law: “I WANT IT, I DON’T WANT IT.” Unfortunately or fortunately, there is nothing else. But in life, the effect of this law in its original form can only be heard in childhood, when the child speaks directly about his feelings: if he does not want to eat or do something, he directly tells his mother – to dad, grandparent: “I don’t want.” But later (in adulthood), and sometimes even in childhood, a person has to adapt to life’s troubles and the words “I want and I don’t want” take on other forms and expressions. , more and more often, instead of “I don’t want”, a person says: “laziness”, “I can’t”, “I don’t know how”, “I have a mortgage”, “I don’t work”, “I can’t”, “I have to”. “I want” is also a different story. “I want,” as a rule, means some kind of action in the direction of the “object of pleasure,” but very often the action does not happen, and the “I want” hangs in the air, and sometimes a substitution can occur. concepts and instead of “I want love”, for some reason the woman will eat a cake, and “I want attention” she will drown in alcohol or go into illness. In general, it’s not the easiest story with the implementation of “I want”. The “unwilling” will always have something holding them back, justifying their lifelong inaction; a willing person doesn't care about anything. He really wants to: change his life for the better, lose weight, get married, go on a trip around the world, etc., etc. He will do everything possible and impossible, because his “I want” runs ahead of him at the speed of light. And even if your initial “input data” is not the sweetest (you were beaten, there was not enough parental warmth, rape, etc.), it’s all the same a new life should begin with your “I want”. “I want” to find a specialist who will help me overcome the difficulties of life and move on with my head held high. Instead of a conclusion: the only thing you need to decide on in life is whether you want it or not, where “I want” is action, and “I don’t want” is inaction.?!