Today is a wonderful bright holiday and the best reason to dream. Do you know that desires are a skill? The fact is that children have desires naturally, but adults may have blockages. Are you not doing what you love because you don’t know what you want? And you are not alone here. Why do you think people like to watch movies where the hero escapes danger? The thing is that his actions are filled with meaning) What may be stopping you: 1. Lots of choices in the modern world. 2. An internal conflict, when it’s as if a voice inside is grumbling: what kind of an artist are you, you would now draw caricatures near the metro for pennies and that’s all, but you’re an accountant in a company, well, the work isn’t interesting, but you make money... etc. n. The whole point is that your parents, with all their love for you, had their own expectations of what children should be like, and love for a child is a fusion, it is to be the same as the parent. At the same time, in adulthood, by separating from our parents and not doing what they would like, we become an individual. And this is all a normal process. Look, I like some shoes, I feel comfortable in them, they are of excellent quality. And then I decide to recommend them to my friend. She dresses and feels discomfort. Why? Because she has her own structural features of the foot, plus those that arose during life. It’s the same with desires and dreams. What your parents or significant others would like you to be like may not suit YOU at all, no matter how wonderful their dreams look. So what should we do? Yell at your parents for not understanding. It is possible, of course, but not effective. First, try to accept them as they are and take care of yourself... Exercise Choose a common thing that you can give up and think about what you will replace it with - it should really be a favorite activity! There is one condition, you can give up only those things that that you do for another person. For example, you may no longer go grocery shopping, but entrust this to another family member, relieve yourself of the responsibility of taking the children to the club or taking your spouse’s things to the dry cleaner. Thus, you will have an hour of time freed up and you can spend it only for yourself! Is that all? Yes, this is all an exercise and it is very effective. You can try and report the effect) And I will be grateful for your likes and subscribe)