1. A real woman does not pursue happiness. She's not chasing anything at all. Running for happiness is the most popular and stupidest sport. We are all running somewhere. Towards a brighter future, tomorrow, next year, etc. A real woman does not play this sport. She floats through life, always being in the present day, because the present is the most interesting and important thing that occupies her attention. No, of course, a real woman has plans for the future, but she does not put off life for tomorrow. She doesn’t expect her real life to begin when... (when she finally loses weight, when the prince arrives, when the circumstances are right, etc.). 2. Being a real woman is a great privilege, and she understands it. She is in awe of the fact that she was born a woman and sees a special value in this. She not only knows herself as a woman at the conceptual level, she feels like one. For her, being a real woman is not a test, not hard work, and not a cross that must be borne throughout her life. This is a gift and blessing from fate. A real woman cultivates femininity at all levels: internal (sensations, feelings, thoughts) and external (body, clothing, behavior). 3. A real woman lives at her own pace. When you live too slowly, you don't have the feeling that this is life. When you live too fast, you don't have time to experience life. Each of us has our own pace of existence. A real woman knows and feels it well and lives in accordance with it. She avoids extremes. He doesn't lie on the couch, but he doesn't flutter around like a chicken either. She regulates her own loads and thereby sets the pace for the circumstances around her. A real Woman lives in such a way as to do what she wants, and at the same time not lose her taste for life. In her actions, the most important thing is not the number of body movements performed per unit of time, but the accuracy of calculation and awareness of what she is doing and why. 4. A real woman comes first. And this does not mean that she is selfish, callous, indifferent or cynical. She just knows that behind the excessive desire to engage with other people lies the fear of living her own life. A real woman is interested in her life. She never loses the sense of the value of her personal space. But at the same time she is capable of supporting, helping and participating in the lives of other people. She doesn't say yes if her heart says no. And he always listens to himself and trusts his feelings. 5. A real woman does not need a “record book for public opinion.” Every girl receives this book – for parents, teachers, neighbors, relatives, friends and colleagues – as a child. And girls devote their entire lives to passing exams for it. A real woman threw it away Let others check the boxes: married - not married, normal - not normal, alone - not alone, like everyone else - not like everyone else... A real Woman lives by her own guidelines, comes up with them herself and embodies them herself And if they are different. to the standards of others, this does not bother her very much. She allows other people to evaluate herself the way they want. She knows that the mission of “pleasing everyone” is stupid and impossible. A real woman works on herself, but never does it in order to earn someone's approval. She does this out of love for herself. 6. A real woman has outgrown her “good girl”. A good girl is a pupil of our parents. She has one task - to please others, to arouse approval. To be liked even when her own desires protest. A good girl lives by the principle “I must” or “ I shouldn’t.” She rarely asks herself what she really wants. A real woman has left her “good girl”, and at the same time left the constant desire for approval and praise. This doesn't mean she doesn't care how she is judged. She just doesn’t prove anything to anyone, especially to her own detriment. To her traits, which are usually called shortcomings (and who doesn’t have them?), a real woman.