According to statistics, in our country there are at least 60% of divorces. Divorced people often remarry. And it is encouraging if they want to take into account their mistakes in previous relationships, so that the new marriage does not end in divorce, like the previous one. It is interesting to look at the main reasons for divorces according to Russians. By the way, contrary to the belief that remarriages are usually more durable, this is not the case. Moreover, in remarriages, in addition to its usual difficulties, normative crises, which can be read about in the selection of articles at the link https://www.b17.ru/selected/1424/, additional difficulties arise - children from a previous marriage, meetings with them, alimony or voluntary assistance to them; ex-husbands and wives, property and housing problems. The situation when a woman with children gets married, and her husband needs to become a good stepfather for her children, as they say - to love not only the woman, but also her children, is considered quite common. But for a woman to accept and love her husband’s children from another marriage is much less common. Considering the difficulties of living with a divorced man with children from a previous marriage, young girls, thinking about marriage, set one of the conditions that their future chosen one be single and childless. And their parents usually support them in this decision. But, nevertheless, such marriages often take place and can be quite harmonious under certain conditions. What should women take into account and pay attention to if their chosen one is divorced? What might be alarming? What is important is how he evaluates his divorce, what he says about it, and who he considers to blame for it. If he considers his ex-wife to be solely to blame, and himself as “white and fluffy”, I would really like to believe in this, of course, but it should be somewhat alarming - is the man sufficiently self-critical and responsible? If a man speaks extremely negatively about his ex-wife, shares too intimate details, “shakes up” dirty laundry. If he left unsightly, made a scandal, quarrelsomely divided property. If he does not help his children, evades paying alimony or does not fulfill his promise to voluntarily help them. If a woman’s chosen one has children from a previous marriage, she it is necessary to understand that a good father will communicate with them, help them financially, and will, to some extent, communicate with his ex-wife as the mother of his children. In such cases, a woman may become jealous both of the man’s children and of his ex-wife, who may sometimes try to “pull the blanket” over herself. Married to a man with children from another marriage? An open letter to a client We must also understand that a man has children for life, and not until the age of 18, as some people think, that they can ask their father for help even after they come of age - in paying for university studies, etc. Children born in a new marriage, will be brothers and sisters to the man’s children from another marriage. It is desirable that they actually be brothers and sisters, know each other, communicate, and maintain family relationships. My list, as usual, is not exhaustive - anyone can add to it. And at the end of the article, I can assure you that nothing can stop those lucky people who fall in love with each other and seriously want to be together, especially if they are motivated not only by love, but also reason and sober calculation. You can sign up for a consultation through a personal message on the website, by calling +7 916 158 13 08 (Whats App or Telegram is preferable)