A person’s desires set the vector of his life. It is important to cultivate your own goals and plans and be able to implement them. How many desires a person has, so much life he has. And this is very clearly demonstrated by children who are direct with their “I want!” Often you ask yourself: “What do I want?” Hearing internal signals, calls and impulses, we become our own. We are not the ones who dictate what we should and shouldn’t do, what we should do and where we should go. It is its own fire that just needs to burn. Suppressed desires are characterized by apathy, depression, melancholy, sadness and other passive states. There is no motor inside, there is no energy to accomplish anything and, accordingly, the person gives up. Your own will and entrepreneurship weakens. In this regard, a person can take other people’s desires as his own and implement them. For example, the most common phrases are: “I don’t want this kind of relationship, this job, and I don’t want to live like this.” But this is a kind of disagreement with reality, and not an incentive to action. Should I complain that my desires are not fulfilled? Everything happens according to the law of attraction and correspondence. How many desires do you have and how much energy is in them? Successful and happy people are distinguished by the fact that they know what they want and know how to turn it into reality. They are not ready to give up what they want or give in in the chosen direction. They bring their choice to the final result. There is energy in desire that needs to be strengthened. This requires healthy activity, inclusion and assertiveness. Why am I doing this?, Why do I need this?, What will I get in the end?, Will this make me happy?, Who will I become as a result? - these questions should be asked to confirm your true needs. Desires come from the body, soul, heart, and not from the head and attitudes of others. Distinguish the grain from the husk! If it is difficult for my client to reach his own “I want”, then I explore his “I don’t want”, “I won’t”. This is also a kind of material that allows you to come to yourself. To understand what I love, you need to determine what you don’t like. You can move away from something and come to something. Desires drive us, even if we are not aware of them. All actions come from feelings, and feelings are generated from needs. Needs should be recognized for a harmonious and vibrant life. Then there will be no conflict, since a person chooses himself and finds his own way of implementing his plans. Desires are often accompanied by fear. Everything is clear and obvious, but there is not enough courage or responsibility to implement it, and it is postponed until later. In such cases, fear or other accompanying feelings are stronger than desire. What dominates will win. Every desire gives us strength. Nature itself shows this. Children want and can, but older people tend to remain calm and deny themselves many things. Choose life! The more of our own desires we fulfill, the more mature and self-sufficient person we become. Desire and create your life!