In Russia, it is customary for children to live with their parents until they start their own family. But it happens that, having created their own family, children continue to live with their parents. But I want to dwell on why you need to live on your own before living with your partner. When we live with our parents, one way or another they take care of us: they wash, iron, cook, wash, etc. And we get used to it. And then we transfer what we are accustomed to in our parents’ family to our created family. There is no responsibility for myself! But when I live on my own, who will cook my food, do my laundry, iron my clothes, and wash the dishes? And who will calculate the budget so that there is enough money until the next month? Only yourself. So, gradually, a person learns to distribute and manage finances, cook, clean, wash, create and maintain home comfort. He is completely responsible for his life. And this means that this person is a mature person (at least in terms of everyday life)! This is how the habit of running a household and providing for oneself is formed. What kind of partner would such a person want to build a relationship with? With the same! Family life will be much easier. Both will wash and clean and cook. One will not expect something from the other, but will do it himself, which will please his partner. After all, for him it can be a manifestation of care. So, you do it for yourself, but it turns out you also do it for someone else. He, in turn, will also want to show concern. There is no expectation that the other person should do this and that, and I shouldn’t - which is destructive for the family. And when a person is responsible for his life, he takes responsibility for his actions, their consequences and, of course, for his family. But, unfortunately, it happens in different ways and when one partner does something often, an unspoken agreement arises What should a partner do now all the time? Sooner or later, negativity will accumulate and there will be a scandal. In a good, adult way, when two lovers begin to live together, it would be good to agree on who is doing what: to define boundaries and responsibilities in the family in order to minimize clashes on everyday aspects. But you need to mature before that... That’s why, before starting a family, the experience of living alone would be very useful...