Remember children's fairy tales about love with a happy ending? In Cinderella, the prince fell in love with the dirty little girl and went in search of her. In "Sleeping Beauty" the same one came and woke me up - he breathed life into him with a kiss. Waiting for your man is a fairy tale scenario. And even when in a relationship or marriage, such a woman constantly has doubts: “Did I make a promise to love?” She lives with one person, but her psyche is in a different place - where HER man is. If needs are not met in a relationship, everything is more or less clear. You need to look at what your partner is mirroring to you, be aware of the rejected parts of yourself and experience the pain. And then every day do what is scary: either actively act or, conversely, let go of the reins of control and remain inactive. But what if the needs are met and everything is fine, but the feeling that somewhere else there is another life does not leave? You know, I was surprised and even a little shocked to realize that the search for my man, as well as the search for my business, meaning, purpose, is a common habit, an energy-informational worm that interferes with movement and the feeling of being alive “here and now.” Someone in me tells me to run and fight with myself, which is not enough for him. In Satori Healing we do not fight worms, but by force of will we remove them from the body and consciously refuse. Right now, are you ready to give up the habit of waiting for your man? Imagine that the same prince with whom there will be a different life will never appear. What do you feel? In my visualization of the Satori Healing model, at first there was a feeling that then I was an Under-Woman. If with the Prince, then it seems like she realized herself in a feminine way, but with an ordinary man, self-realization of the feminine principle is far from being realized and it hurts. What is the reason for such thoughts? The external environment actively offers a woman values ​​that are far from her true current needs. Women show photos of bouquets, gifts for a man, vacations together, and those who lack all this begin to a) nag the man; b) blame yourself; c) wait and look for someone who will allow you to be a real woman. If gifts are given and the family is provided for, but there is no spiritual closeness, there are doubts again. Favorite escape phrase: “This is just not your man.” Then books and trips to trainings from the series “How to make a man begin to appreciate and listen to you”, “How to inspire him to achieve his goals” and “How to finally find one.” In Satori Healing, experiencing pain transforms the belief “I am an Underwoman” and the need to prove one’s femininity simply disappears. Moreover, finding your type of Femininity by searching for a man and redoing her actions seems so stupid, because it is pointless to look for what you already have. After giving up the habit of “Waiting for the One”, space is freed up. A woman suddenly receives attention from a man that she did not have before. It wasn’t - because attention from a non-existent man is impossible. The same one is a fantasy, a fairy tale. If you consciously abandon this fairy tale, then reality changes. How are you, friends? Are you living or waiting??