How many relationships collapse because of a woman’s obsession with a man! How many relationships do not even begin, for the same reason, because the object of obsession, sensing danger, ran away... And it’s not men’s fault, or the villain is fate... Here the responsibility is on us, because it is we who are FOCUSED... Our “harmless” obsession strangles our partner... He feels it, even if we “sort of control ourselves.” Because we always broadcast that what we have inside, even if we don’t want or don’t realize it. Does a woman who is fixated realize what she's gotten herself into? As usual - no! A girl in a relationship can be fixated or not. So, you are obsessive if: - You suffer from being lonely; - You try on every potential partner for the role of a “groom”; - You constantly control your partner; - You think that you should spend all your free time together; - You live only partner and his interests, pushing your own into the background; - You constantly worry about why he doesn’t call; - You tolerate unworthy behavior just not to be left alone; - You start conversations about the seriousness of your relationship and his intentions; - You are afraid that you may not meet your love...If these points are about you, then you are fixated on your partner and are shifting your focus of life to him. This creates destructive relationships. And your partner, no matter how much he loves you, will want to run away 🙊Therefore, my dears, let’s shift the focus to ourselves (easy to say, hard to do, I know), learn to enjoy OUR life, live OUR interests, RECOGNIZE our value and uniqueness. LOVE YOURSELF TO MADNESS. In this case, your environment will change and adapt to what you emit. And if there is a man in your environment who has abusive intentions, then you will not cling to him, and say goodbye without fear, because you cannot do otherwise! And then, a worthy man will be next to you. You simply won’t allow another man into your environment 💖 Join my community on VK https://vk.com/psyzver