From the author: The article contains many links to articles I have already written, which are part of today’s topic. It will be great. if reading today's article. you will include in it all those to which references are given. This will allow you to put together a holistic image of this topic. Today we have arrived at the next point along the path of femininity - the third petal of our lotus - Geisha - Muse - Darinya - Queen. Let's look at these roles in more detail. If at the age of "girl", male energies predominate in us, and at the age of "girl" we begin to learn feminine energies, then at the age of "woman" we learn to create a harmonious balance between the feminine and masculine energies in us, skillfully using them in accordance with the situations that arise in our lives. The age period “Woman” is quite capacious and includes the roles: geisha, queen, mother, goddess. On average, this period lasts from age 25 to the midlife crisis of 49, or even up to 56 years. For each woman, this period is individual, and is limited to the exit from the state of reproductive capacity - the entrance to menopause. But those roles that we will talk about today are designated by the period from 25 to 30-35. The essence of this age is to know the essence of the other (opposite sex) and learn the wisdom of balance. Who is a Geisha? The essence of the word Geisha (Japanese: 芸者 geisha) is a person of creativity. A man of art, entertaining guests. (Yujo prostitute). "eternal bride" What is included in the role? The ability to be beautiful, the ability to present oneself with dignity, the ability to speak beautifully with a man on various topics, the ability to interest and maintain interest, the ability to inspire others to act, the ability to charm and attract, knowledge of the pleasures of one’s body, the ability to give and receive pleasure (pleasure), the ability to open up to a man and fully accept his body, the ability to exchange energy with a man, the ability to fill a man with energy, the ability to give the greatest pleasure to a spouse, knowledge of love games and the art of lovemaking, knows how to be both sexy and sexy, knows that a female orgasm from a man is not envious, knows that “sex for health” is dangerous to health, the ability to dress and undress beautifully, the ability to give various massages, maintain longevity and health, the ability to recognize the qualities and abilities of people, the ability to recognize a person’s condition by his handwriting , express yourself beautifully and competently in writing, the ability to convey your state and perception of the world around you with the help of painting and drawing, arranging garlands, wreaths, bouquets and knowing their hidden meaning, composing poems, songs and performing them, the ability to move plastically and dance to different tunes, the ability to cry beautifully. A geisha is a muse for a man, inspiring and including the Creator within him. A geisha knows how to give her presence, her attention, her emotions so sincerely that the Breadwinner also turns on in a man, he wants to do everything for this woman so that she does not need anything, if only she remains as cheerful and gives these energies of joy to him .To give something, you first have to have it in yourself. To love someone, you must have the energy of love within yourself - to love yourself initially. Often in consultations you can hear from women: “I love my husband more than myself, and in general I don’t love myself, I only love him.” This is a game of the mind and nothing more. It doesn’t happen like that. You can't love someone more than yourself. You can't love only yourself. You can't give something you don't have. Therefore, it is so important for a Woman to be filled with the energy of Love in order to become the sun for her beloved. A beautiful woman whose eyes glow with joy. It is also necessary to know a man as himself. A geisha knows the physiology and psychology of a man. We are different and it is not at all wise when a woman evaluates a man’s behavior through the prism of a woman’s vision of the world - “I would do this in his place.” If you were in his place, you would have acted as he did, because he is a man and not a woman. It is very important to realize one point here. We always choose men who are similar to us, who are similarto our inner man - our Animus, our Yang. Like always attracts like. Realizing this fact. By accepting it, you will be able to understand your man better. Your man acts as your own inner man would act. This is a very serious moment in the development of relations between a man and a woman. Family is a school of love. This is a school of joint development. Husband and wife are mirrors, reflecting their common qualities to each other. Therefore, if you don’t like the men who surround you, it’s time to fill your inner man with quality, and not start raising external men. A geisha should know how to convey information to men so that he can hear you. After all, a man will better understand your thoughts if you pack them into 10 simple sentences and do not weave clever monograms that sometimes you yourself do not understand for an hour, or even more. Know how to advise a man, so that it is not an instruction, but real advice. Know how to relax a man physically and psychologically, and vice versa, how to invigorate him and fill him with energy. A geisha is not looking for a man, she chooses among men. If the Amazon is full of aggression, the Witch is passive-aggressive, then there is not a trace of aggression in the Woman - she respects the man a priori. Respect a man a priori, and not for his merits, length of service, as we have all been taught. Of course, respect for men begins with respect for your father, for your brothers. Without respecting your father, it is very difficult to start respecting someone else’s man, it’s almost impossible. How can you love someone you don't respect? No way. Therefore, phrases like: “Yes, I love him, but there is no respect left for him at all” is also a game of mind and words and nothing more. You can respect anyone, but not love, but to love and not respect the one you love - that doesn’t happen. Again, you can respect someone only when you initially respect your parents and yourself. Many people also understand respect for men in a perverted way. This is not a position “below” the husband, this is a position “behind” the husband in front of society... We are equal and different at the same time. Darinya knows how to beautifully give a man her love. Darinya knows how to be grateful - to give energy of good to the world. Darinya knows how to stay and create a good state around herself. To be in well-being, which she knows how to give - to be grateful and, accordingly, to be able to receive benefits - to be prosperous. Well-being - gratitude - well-being - this is the formula for financial well-being. This is the energy of good and includes the energy of the breadwinner and creator in a man. A man is often successful by giving ... to a woman, returning to her the benefit he received from her. The role of “Queen” as the final role of a woman’s development by the age of 35. It includes all previous roles. It is the queen who knows how to wisely switch from one role to another - or rather, she knows where, when and what role is appropriate to use for herself and the situation for the benefit: at work - an Amazon, in the kitchen - a witch, in the bedroom a geisha, in the living room - a queen. This is women's wisdom - to be different. At the same time, in each role, to be of high quality, the balance of feminine and masculine energies in a woman is manifested by the ability to switch, for example, from the queen-wife of the king, when her husband is nearby, to the queen, the mistress of the space, when the husband is on a “campaign”. Balance also manifests itself in the early ability to be responsible for one’s affairs and allow a man to take responsibility for his affairs without controlling or teaching him. This is the absence of any competition with a man. This is the ability to cooperate with him, co-partner, co-create. Transfer this internal balance into relationships. The external is always a reflection of the internal. What role imbalances occur at the age of “woman”, in the roles of geisha - muse - Darinya - queen? If a woman does not learn to love herself. It is difficult for her to build a sincere, selfless relationship with a man, filled with giving and receiving. She begins to build a consumer, benefit-seeking relationship based on “give and take”, likened to a yujo. The formats of interaction “give-take” and “give-receive” are different. By giving herself to a man, a woman kills the creator in him. The woman is worth!