It’s very frustrating that a large number of publications are dedicated to narcissistic men. But their husbands, boyfriends, children and other relatives suffer from female narcissistic abuse. In this article, I invite you to learn more about the types of female narcissists. A star obsessed with her power and increasing the number of fans. A sweet, quiet “mouse”, who in fact is a controller and a domestic tyrant. A beauty who is focused solely on her appearance, while being indifferent and cold in relationships. A “victim in life” who stubbornly remains with those who offend her, and at the same time receives many benefits from this position. These and other types of girls and women can be your lovers, wives, sisters, and so on. Any one of them could be a narcissist. Narcissists emerge in these and other role scenarios. From quiet people to the Snow Queen, female narcissists can be very different. Perhaps, in one way or another, all types will have similar traits: - Tendency to use other people - Deceitfulness - Selfishness - Difficulties with empathy - Manipulativeness - Preoccupation with external content at the expense of form - Dependence on other people's assessments But there are many differences, and it would be a mistake to fit everyone into one type. To better understand what kind of narcissistic wives there are, let’s turn to the common typology of narcissists: grandiose, perverted, hidden (deficient). Within each type, we will highlight other subtypes. - Grandiose type - bright, powerful, loving to manage and be in sight. Often suppress others. In public they are stars and leaders, at home they are simply indifferent, fixated on themselves. 1) Careerist - such a narcissistic woman is fixated on her business, career, project, creativity. This, by the way, is not the worst way of sublimation. Only the family and household are, rather, needed simply as an appendage. 2) A star - for such a narcissist, the main thing is to be present in the public field, so that she is recognized and admired. He spends most of his time and energy on his appearance. The most important function of a man is to pay for the maintenance of this beauty and desires; in family life there is connivance on her part. I saw advantages in it for myself. Domestic tyrant, controller, dictator, rather cold. Households are strictly drilled to follow the rules and maintain the picture of an “ideal family.” - Perverse type - extremely manipulative, sadistic, negative, depressive, emphasize hidden influence, often overestimate their intellectual abilities. They know how to maintain the façade of a “proper woman.” They often take it with tediousness and exhaustion, which at first the partner can take for love and a serious attitude. 4) Intrigue - constantly plays behind-the-scenes games, pits loved ones against each other, even pits their own children against each other. She is comfortable precisely when everyone is feeling bad and everyone has quarreled. 5) Intellectual - likes to show off her knowledge, teachings, education, religiosity, etc. In fact, he understands everything quite superficially. But he actively uses these pieces of knowledge as clues for hypocrisy. Loves to criticize others and teach them how to live.6) Controller – pathologically jealous, distrustful, turns the life of her boyfriend/spouse into a nightmare. She always blames him for everything, imposes her own rules. At the same time, she does not leave, even if the question is put to her openly. She needs someone next to her who can always be made to blame. - Hidden (deficit) type - without displaying such pronounced demonstrativeness, they like to play the role of good girls, try to join some communities. They cling with all their might to stronger, more influential people in order to at least slightly compensate for their condition and “strengthen” themselves.7) Quiet person - can attract with her modesty, meek disposition, and complaisance. After a while, information comes to light about leftist connections, about a hidden game. But with all her might she will deny it and will cling to some stereotyped image of a sweet, good woman with