Sexuality... I'm talking about female sexuality, of course! This is when a woman is turned on by herself. At some point she feels beautiful. She knows she's good. If you want: she wants herself. And from somewhere in the body energy and strength appear, movements change, a different smile appears... She feels her body, she likes it, she likes what happens to it. Even if there are flaws in the body, at this moment, she likes it. It is not necessary that a woman admires herself in the mirror...she can watch how the instep of her feet bends in her shoes...or how the bracelets lie beautifully on her wrist. And at some point she notices that the world is becoming more beautiful: some especially beautiful light, music and the body moves to the beat, even the taste of food and smells change... everything becomes more beautiful. And she is so especially attractive at this moment! If a woman is happy with herself and the world, she is sexy. Not the other way around. This is why the atmosphere for sex is so important. Therefore, it is common to believe that a woman needs candles and romance. She needs to be happy with herself! Admire yourself and the world. Men, if you are reading this text, remember: a woman first decides whether she will have sex with you or not, and only then gets excited by you. First she likes her, the world around her, and then sex with you. In this case, you can see her free. This is why perfectionism and the desire to be ideal are the path to asexuality. If she thinks about the fact that she doesn't have perfect nails, hair or cellulite...then she doesn't feel sexy. Therefore, she must have something in life that she likes, brings pleasure, enjoyment. Maybe that’s why selfies and social media are so popular. I’m good at this second, I want others to see it. Such a strong lack of self-satisfaction, let others confirm to me that I am good. And gradually this develops into mania: “I must be beautiful!” "I have to be perfect!" Now I was close, and I need to capture it. Men encourage a woman's hobbies, the opportunity to have something just for herself. Let her enjoy at least something in this world. Dancing, embroidery, alpine skiing, organizing events or playing the stock market. If only she felt that she was good. And then there is a much greater chance that she will want you. And I would like to separately note: this condition has no age. Whether you are 16 or 60, you can enjoy yourself and the world. Which means being sexy.